Beyond all of that, some of the OP’s comments don’t sit well with me.
OP: “It’s not that I did something exceptionally horrible that they not only had to dismiss me from Berkeley but also block me from every UC. It’s just how the UC system works: every student who gets dismissed from one UC needs chancellor approval to get into a different UC.”
It strikes me that you must have done something pretty horrible – or made a series of less-than-horrible judgment errors, like blowing off the process on top of a horrible or almost-horrible offense – in order to get yourself dismissed under this lengthy and fair-sounding Code of Conduct. Furthermore, it’s likely not a coincidence that every student who gets dismissed from one UC needs Chancellor approval to get into a different UC. It’s likely that, since the process for dismissal is so rigorous, the UC system feels it’s necessary to require Chancellor approval prior to re-admitting any previously dismissed student. That is, perhaps the UC administration thinks that any transgression that ultimately leads to a dismissal is “exceptionally horrible.”
This, from the Code of Conduct: “Dismissal will typically be used in cases that cannot be appropriately addressed with a suspension because the recurring nature of multiple violations or the extraordinary caliber of a single violation demonstrates that the student does not deserve an opportunity to return to campus. Readmission after dismissal may be granted only under exceptional circumstances.”
OP: “If it helps, I didn’t physically assault or hurt anybody.”
Ummm … It is very likely that whatever you did did hurt somebody. I read each and every “Grounds for Discipline” item in the Code of Conduct. They all pretty much hurt other people. That’s why you have a Code of Conduct. You were not dismissed for something harmless, and it raises my antennae to hear you simultaneously pleading remorse while claiming that you didn’t hurt a fly. It sounds to me like you’re feeling regret, not remorse.
This, from the Code of Conduct: “The University of California at Berkeley is a community of scholars committed to maintaining an environment that encourages personal and intellectual growth. It is a community with high standards and high expectations for those who choose to become a part of it, including established rules of conduct intended to foster behaviors that are consistent with a civil and educational setting.”
OP: “The one thing that really frustrates me is that many colleges provide students about to be dismissed with the option of withdrawing voluntarily, avoiding a dismissal from appearing on their transcript. However, Berkeley just decided to dismiss me outright.”
Not buying it. I read the Code of Conduct from front to back. You yourself said it was a very lengthy process. They did not dismiss you “outright.” They followed a long process and I presume they kept you informed, in writing, along the way, as outlined in their Code of Conduct. Forgive me if I’m wrong about this, but it also seems to me that you could have withdrawn voluntarily at any time. What’s to keep you from quitting while undergoing the process? Did you not have that choice? (Hmm. Well, I did read that if you decide to remove yourself from the process, the process will go on without you. So maybe that’s what you mean. Would they take it to the bitter end if you had already withdrawn? And weren’t there earlier opportunities to accept the informal collaboration that they claim to prefer, or to withdraw at that time?)
OP: “Also I probably picked the worst time in the century to screw up because colleges are under national pressure to crackdown harder on student misconduct because of the race demonstrations, feminist movement, and etc.”
Enough others have already commented on this sentence and what it seems to reveal about your thinking. No need for me to go on. But I gotta ask–you are aware that race demonstrations and the feminist movement have been going on for some time now, right?
OP: “All in all, I’m not asking for special treatment. I just want to be able to get into a decent college and complete my education, but this dismissal is really hurting me.”
As you said, you could try OOS colleges, but you don’t want to. It would be inconvenient for you.
I do see that this dismissal, which you brought upon yourself, is hurting you. When people make egregious errors in judgement, they risk hurting themselves as well. I wonder if you have given as much thought to the others whom you hurt.
I don’t think the OP is necessarily beyond repair or that he should never get help again. He’s a young man who can surely offer a lot to the world. But I do think he has a way to go in his reparations and amends and in his acceptance of his misdeeds. And I think that, by design, he must find other ways to earn his education–outside of the UC system.
OR, he has to find a way to earn the Chancellor’s approval … which will take work and humility, not loopholes.