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<p>What you are describing is one of the fundamental things facing students serious about music, that is the inherent conflict between the hours required for music study and the time needed to be spent with school work. While there are some kids who can do both at a really high level and achieve, inevitably there are tradeoffs. For the serious music student, it can mean bypassing the mania for AP classes and the like, backing off on that side while pursuing music (or homeschooling, as my son and many music students do). Others facing this dilemma sacrifice the music side, do well academically and slip musically. It is hard, and especially now when there increasingly is this idea (which is ridiculous, but prevalent) that if you don’t get on the right track in high school, well,you are dooming yourself, so for example, parents are afraid to let their kids concentrate on music and pull back a bit from the academic rat race, because then ‘they won’t get into a good college’ (more on that in a bit). Here are some of my thoughts:</p>
<p>-I do agree with others, that as a freshman being in one of the ensembles or whatever in the music program is worth it. Not necessarily musically (high school music programs, to be blunt, are generally not that high level, I was part of them, and I was one of the reasons why they weren’t high level:). However, as a social thing, a way to get to know kids, it is a great experience, plus IME ‘band kids’ tend to be a very eclectic bunch, not a very one size fits alll group (we had kids who were athletes, gearheads, ‘artsy’, you name it, easy to find someone to relate to:). If it means slipping an honors class, probably worth it.</p>
<p>-I can’t speak for your district, but do they require honors level classes to take AP classes? if not, then they could take the regular section and then take AP…</p>
<p>-As Stacjip pointed out, kids who focus on music often change their minds at college time and go to an academic school, and from what I have seen if they ‘pull back’ from the academic rat race a bit, it won’t hurt them at the college level. Based on my observations and talking to other parents, kids who do music like that, who may not take all the AP’s and honor’s classes, who otherwise do well academically, SAT’s and so forth, end up doing well in admissions nonetheless. I suspect it is because the college knows what musical kids go through, and also realize that the discipline and such music kids have to have to achieve any kind of level makes a big difference in the classroom, too…plus they often want musical kids not majoring in music to play in college orchestras and such, which might be a plus. So if she focuses on music, then decides to do academics, as long as she has done well academically she will prob be fine if she decides not to major in music…</p>
<p>-I agree about finding as much outside music experience as possible, among other things, it is likely she will be with kids playing at a higher level their instrument, and that is a really good thing. I realize you live upstate and that means the opportunities are limited, but I encourage you to find those kind of things. Music parents go crazy, I am fortunate we live in the NYC metro area so have a lot of opportunities available, but parents literally drive hours and hours to get kids to high level programs, I have known parents who drove their kids 10 hours on a sat to get them to a program, or even fly in…I think that is extreme, especially since they had good alternatives within a couple of hours of their house, but it is indicative about trying to find opportunities and the importance I think. </p>
<p>There are also the summer programs, like Tanglewood/BUTI and so forth, they are valuable (the tanglewood orchestra program is first rate, and the ensemble and chamber programs are supposed to be good, too). These are expensive, but they do offer scholarships and such, might be worth checking out. </p>
<p>The key is in the private teacher, that is the most important thing of all. If she has a strong teacher, then that will go a long way to helping her. </p>
<p>-I wouldn’t sweat over music theory in school, if she can take it, great, but if she can’t it isn’t like that is the end of the world. As has been talked about on here a lot, taking AP music theory, other then gaining knowledge in theory, isn’t going to make a big difference (other then having music theory knowledge is helpful, of course, it is why students are forced to take it:). They are unlikely to give you credit for it in a music program and when you get admitted to music schools they don’t assume you have theory. Taking the AP might place someone into a higher level theory class, but not entirely certain that is a good thing necessarily (music theory is not entirely standard, every program has its own way of teaching, the order of concepts, terminology, and so forth…). She could probably study music theory outside school, there are online resources, books, etc where she could self study. </p>
<p>My take? Take a deep breath and follow your gut (guided by suggestions of others, you have to weigh what works for you) and you will probably be okay whatever path she ends up on, there are no tragic mistakes at this point. Even with strings and piano (where you almost have to dedicate to music earlier then high school to make it at any kind of level, it is totally insane) there are many paths if that doesn’t work out, and with winds it is a bit of a different world (merely insane, instead of totally insane <em>lol</em>).</p>