<p>^^sorrryy :b</p>
<p>Wow thanks SandwichGirl. Haha</p>
<p>Roll up a blunt with a list of your regrets. Burn it burn it all and start it fresh.</p>
<p>Decrescendo, I agree with other posters here. The girl’s character was probably a little sketchy if she was doing things behind your back in another state (though only you can judge the situation though).</p>
<p>I also broke up not too long ago except we didn’t last five months (relationship was ****ty to behind with). Did I wallow a bit? Yes. Did I log into CC? No. Did I talk about it with friends? Yes! The third helped the most. </p>
<p>As for how things worked out in the end… Well I realized that through our relationship (even when we were friends) that we don’t get along very well and her character was pretty (<em>cross-out</em> very) sketchy as well. For example, she wasn’t over some other guy when she was with me. That just destroyed trust I had with her and prevented me from even treating her as a friend afterwards. (She had much more faults than this, but she was just a very good actress)</p>
<p>As for your “suspicious” thoughts, just forget about them. It’ll hurt more thinking about them. One of my closest friends is a friend of my ex, so I was able to get a lot of answers :), which helps a lot too. If you don’t have a friend like that, then might as well forget about it and move on.</p>
<p>Good luck, the feeling will go away soon and you’ll find a much better girl later :)</p>
<p>^^Haha I don’t smoke pot, man. But I shall interpret that statement in a metaphorical manner and do that.</p>
<p>^Thanks Mr. Wheezy. Haha, I talked to my two best friends for hours on the phone, and we hung out last night. So I’m really okay. But I wasn’t yesterday.</p>
<p>It’ll blow over eventually. Hopefully sooner than that.</p>
<p>The song “Time” by Ben Folds pretty accurately sums it up for me. “Time takes time, you know.”</p>
<p>What worked best for me was just getting a new girl. It doesn’t always work out for the best in the long run, but that’s what I would do.</p>
<p>ETA: (Why is the font so big on this thread?)</p>
<p>I don’t think I’m going to date for a while. I’m just not up to it right now. Maybe that’ll change sometime this school year. But for now, I’m just gonna hang with friends and work on school.</p>