<p>I'm curious. Having never been in a relationship myself, I'd like to know something.</p>
<p>How many of you have only had ONE relationship and it didn't work out but you managed to move on? Meaning you dated someone, broke up, and didn't get in a relationship after that, but you were able to TRULY get over it</p>
<p>I’ve had an on and off relationship with a guy. He knows me inside and out. I have no feelings for him and he has no feelings for me. We’re pretty much the best friends that we were before. We’re able to talk about our relationship and we know we have each others back.</p>
<p>I haven’t dated anyone outside of him mainly because 1) he on up most of my time an 2) I don’t want to date right now. I’m happy being single.</p>
<p>I’ve just heard before that the only real way to get over someone is to find someone else</p>
<p>That’s not true. I don’t like anyone else and I don’t like him. If getting over means not thinking or caring about the person then I guess I’m not over him. But since we are close friends of course I’m going to think and care about him. Just not the way I did when we were together.</p>
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<p>Silliness. I’ve had too long a dating history to have had only one relationship, but this is definitely untrue.</p>
<p>As far as I know, relationships are nothing more than a way for the female member to be a parasite and ignore the actual mentality of the male. I take that knowledge from experience… Usually the girl (sometimes the guy) doesn’t work as hard as the guy(or girl if its the guy not working). </p>
<p>Also…Niquil, I thought you were a guy… you were dating a guy?</p>
<p>That’s sucks that you’ve concluded that from experience. All girls aren’t like that. I’ll be the first to admit that there are a large amount of crazy girls that make horrible girlfriends. I’ve seen them and I just want to tell the guy to run. Girls these days feel that guy are there to fix all their problems and make them feel better and blah blah blah. Guys don’t do that. I know I definitely don’t expect my boyfriend to do that. I can fix my own problems. </p>
<p>@Davinci You thought I was a guy 
No I’m a girl</p>
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<p>WHAT.</p>
<p>I don’t know whom you’re asking out.</p>
<p><em>cough</em>■■■■■<em>cough</em></p>
<p>The one time I was in a relationship was a setup by the girl’s friends to humiliate me. So yeah. That experience haunted me for a while. Besides that, I’m not too keen on a relationship yet.</p>
<p>The only time I got close to being in a relationship, the guy was cheating on his real girlfriend with me. It was a rough time, I didn’t find out about all his lies until a year later. It sucked.</p>
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<p>It just takes time. Eventually you stop romanticizing the past and realize that it ended because it just wasn’t working.</p>