<p>So I've always been the nerdy student studying in the library all night, and this was pretty much a set stereotype all through high school. But college was supposed to be a time to BREAK OUT of that shell...a chance for me to be someone who can study and party.</p>
<p>So how do I get invited to these frat parties, nightclubs, etc? No one has asked me anywhere, and I'm feeling completely left out. :( Maybe I'm just hanging with the wrong, boring people?</p>
<p>College is also a time to start going for what you want. Ask your classmates, some of them will be clueless and some of them may invite you. Ask until you get what you want…</p>
<p>Yeah because people totally go to the library to hand out invitations for parties…</p>
<p>How about meeting people and getting invited that way? Or just crash it, who really cares anyhow.</p>
<p>^^ listen to her</p>
<p>lulz @ threaD</p>
<p>Make friends with all the people you used to hate.</p>
<p>Or find out where the parties are going to be and then invite other people?</p>
<p>when you go to parties make sure to bring a girl, she can give you higher chances of crashing into one</p>
<p>okay but what if you’re a girl trying to get into a frat party and cant find an invite? My friends asked me this question and I didn’t know what to say to them…can the girls crash a party too? lol i feel bad because they’re just starting to come out of their shell and be social, but they just don’t know so much how to go about finding parties…</p>
<p>^ Wow…</p>
<p>I dunno about getting invited to parties but alcohol will solve any social anxiety problems.</p>
<p>start your own parties in dorm rooms, people will show up, you make friends, go from there! people like free drinks.</p>
<p>I agree with TheVeganActress…Put a really bright neon poster on your door saying that ur going to have a party with free food and music…tell everyone to bring a friend…get some good music and you will have a party going! Dont forget to get these people’s info so that when they go 2 a party they wont forget to bring “the outgoing guy who had that really cool dorm party”</p>
<p>^^^</p>
<p>I wouldn’t really advertise a dorm room party during my first year in college, sounds like a great way to get caught by an RA.</p>
<p>Join a club with outgoing people and ask them what they’re doing this weekend. Fishing for invites to parties/nightclubs isn’t really unacceptable.</p>
<p>my freshman year, my friends and I crashed countless amounts of parties, finding them either through facebook events or just wandering down the streets and seeing a busy, loud house. Possibly troublemaking? Yes. Did we go to bad parties? Lots. Did we always find a party? No. But did we have fun? Definitely. So just venture out…don’t be afraid to talk to people on the streets and be like, hey! I guess it does depend on what school you go to, but most people don’t mind random people at their parties (house parties are more exclusive, but if you are a girl you can get into nearly every party no problem, whether you’re crashing or not…and if you go to a frat, 99% of the time they want more girls to come anyways). As a guy things become more difficult but just go with a lot of girls and you’ll be fine. </p>
<p>Many clubs/sports groups have party houses as well…i.e. the glee club, the swimming team, the water polo team, the sailing team…join one of those, and you’re apt to find places to go to. </p>
<p>And advertising a dorm room party? BAD idea. Stick to only people you know well in that situation, because you will quickly get in trouble.</p>
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<p>and this is the story of how I have two write-ups in the first two months of college…</p>
<p>i dont know…its easy to go to parties. one you can crash…no one cares honestly. everyone is invited to the club so i dont get why you say you cant go to clubs, if you have one friend thats enough to go to a club. frats are pretty open…just walk around your floor in your hall and find out if ppl are going…arent you guys all friends?</p>
<p>i just know that in my dorm at emory most people seem very friendly and lots of people go to parties together even some that arent good friends.</p>