<p>true. That’s what I’m worried about. Should I pop the question right on this Friday, or ask her on a separated day?</p>
<p>You never tell a girl you like her! It makes you look like an idiot! </p>
<p>[/A Very Potter Musical]</p>
<p>you should definitely ask her out soon, because she’s going to get tired of waiting around, especially since it seems like she likes you!</p>
<p>the point is, I have asked her out. But she said “when we have time we will” and let me know she were already occupied on those days. Hmmm… thats why I’m not really sure about this</p>
<p>you tell a girl that you like them… they make **** worse for you.</p>
<p>Don’t ever come out and just say “I like you”. That makes you look weak. Also, never ask," do you like me?". That also makes you look weak.</p>
<p>Women like men with confidence so don’t act like you’re afraid of her. Just go up to her, be funny and confident, and ask her out. Be a man about it</p>
<p>Don’t a little wuss like most of the men in high school. Don’t allow a girl to think for one moment you’re just “friend” material. You will be screwed.</p>
<p>ugh. I already asked her out. Please look at the post above</p>
<p>If she said,“when we have time we will”, then she is trying to let you down gently.</p>
<p>If a girl really likes a guy, she will make time for him. ALWAYS. </p>
<p>Don’t let her think that you are sad over this. Act like she wasn’t that important and move on. There is nothing more unattractive than a male that wont take the hint and move on.</p>
<p>I agree with CloudyCloud, except I do think that you still have a chance. What grade are you in? I’m trying to understand the maturity level around this…I’m not acting condescending I’m just trying to understand your situation. While Cloudy is right with saying that guys don’t look good when they can’t take the hint, I don’t know if this girl let you down or anything…she might just be saying one thing and meaning another. Give it another try this friday, maybe with a different wording (think about it…“do you want to go out?” what, like outside? haha sometimes it can be misinterpreted)</p>
<p>well actually she said “when we have time of course.” Well, I’ve been feeling the same way to Cloudy. But her body signal said otherwise. She has conveyed a very mixed feeling toward me
I’m already in high school several years by the way</p>
<p>Girls are masters of mixed feelings.</p>
<p>When we have time of course…</p>
<p>Dude that’s like the cop out way of saying no.</p>
<p>yeah sorry man… she’s too nice to say that she’s not willing to make time in her schedule for you. I know how you feel… now play grenade- bruno mars on loop for the next few days</p>
<p>If you are going to wait - which is fine if she is really important to you - then at the very least don’t let her think you are waiting around for her. </p>
<p>Tell her to come to you when she is ready, and act like what she said was a non issue. With that said, don’t let her think that she can have you whenever she wants. IF she likes you, you want her to get the feeling that you wont wait around for her forever. Let her find then the time and approach you.</p>
<p>Like others have said, don’t be too available, don’t be clingy, and act like you have a life and it certainly doesn’t revolve around her. Contrary to what Disney has lead millions of young boys to believe, boys who act like the girl isn’t that important to them end up getting more girls. Its sad, but true. I do think you should try to detach from her and still look around for a potential girlfriend. </p>
<p>I agree with Bdangle though and would also like to know what grade you are in, if you feel like giving that information up. The way senior approaches relationships is very different from the way a freshman approaches relationships.</p>
<p>I’m guessing he’s a junior or senior. I’m a senior and I have to admit, I had no clue what I was doing when I asked out my (now ex-)gf last year. I kinda just did it. I didn’t plan it, I just said it…whatever that was haha sorry that is so unhelpful. But yeah, as hard as it is, just don’t act like this girl is everything to you. This doesn’t mean shutting her down if she asks you if you wanna do something as friends, or starting to hang out with a different girl to rub it in her face, but just be cool and make sure you use your time for other things. Hang out with your bros, other friends…etc</p>
<p>has she been saying that she’s busy when you ask her out for a while now?</p>
<p>I just asked her last night. Well, do yall think she just wants to lead me on and then reject anyway?</p>
<p>Nice girls don’t lead people on, that’s what *****y drama queens like to do. It’s not really a step in either direction, based on what you say it could be that she really doesn’t have enough time (does she?) or that she doesn’t want to flat out shut you down. I was just wondering if you’ve ever tried asking to hang out/spend time in the past, because if it’s a recurring theme that she tends to delay things it could be that she’s not interested enough to immediately make time.</p>
<p>We don’t know what she will do… After all, she’s a girl. She doesn’t even know what she is going to do.</p>
<p>We are just trying get you to date her while minimizing the damage if she rejects you. What you do is up to you. In my opinion, don’t get your hopes up. If she was interested, she would of said yes and you guys would be planning something out right now. Move on and keep your relationship as it is today. </p>
<p>If you still want to be with her, don’t get attached and act like you are moving on. </p>
<p>Don’t get caught up on one girl though. I do that sometimes and it drives me nuts. There are too many great women out there to actually get caught up on one girl. Every time I go some place new, or every time a new semester begins, I meet more and more amazing women. I am often amazed at how much power I often give one girl when there are so many more out there. The saying is true, " there is always more fish in the sea." </p>
<p>Don’t let this girl get you down. Keep your head up and flirt around. Get a hobby, chill with your boys, and keep your mind on something else.</p>
<p>Yah, ask her if she wants to go to a school hockey game or whatever, nothing “date-like”. It’s so easy for me to ask my girl friends to these types of things, but I understand your position. If you ask her to one or two of these types of events and she says she’s busy, then it’s almost a 100% chance she wants to let you down by saying that</p>
<p>get some coffee with her at Starbucks or something. </p>
<p>And don’t be afraid to flirt around. Hell, being single might be a real blessing. (Here in UCSB at least. :P)</p>
<p>oh haiixx
so last week I thought she was uninterested because on Friday I texted her and called her but she denied my call. Oh and we did not make it to lunch, because she left the class first before I did, but when I got out of class I saw her and a girlfriend of her standing in front of the door, talking. I figured it was strange, because she was supposed to show up at a club meeting or begone already. Then I felt awkward to budge in their convo, so I just went away.
So yesterday, I made a song on facebook about my love to a girl. I did not tag her because I felt it was awkward too, but she clicked like on my song,which was unusual, because we haven’t talked over the last few days and posted on my wall that night that she loved my picture, which is of a british boy band.
so today in class, the first time she initiated conversation with me. I thought she wanted to ask my something, but she said I was very funny, and so forth. I conversed back, feeling it was kind of awkward. So I told her, well, see you in a bit, I gotta do my homework.
Then in other classes she kept smiling at me, and making the question sign, which my friend interpreted it the “half a heart” sign. I did not figure what it was, so I asked her (during class), what does it mean. She just shook her head in a cute way and smiled.</p>
<p>Well, this girl is sending me mixed signals? I’m confused as to what to do now</p>