<p>Seattle Mom you hit it on the head. I am not worried about changing schools. My concern is if this is about NYU or the fact that he made a decision that now sets a part of his life in motion. I tried explaining that he will never know which is better as it is what you make of it. I was more curious if other parents had similar experiences and how they worked thru it. I liked Moms suggestion of listing out the pros and cons and picturing where he will be in 5 and 10 years. That may help the process.</p>