<p>This is probably a question that should be posted on another website, but I wanted to hear what intellectuals on CC have to say. Plus I just want to get this off my chest and get over it... </p>
<p>So, last year in hs, I really liked a girl a my class. She flirted with me and invited me to hang a few times; however, later in the year she got a bf. After that I went out (like a dumb[can't say that word here]), I spent six months trying to impress her, but eventually I gave up. Except, I still thought about her. </p>
<p>Good news are I was able to forget her this summer, after I meet another girl... That other girls left for college and a couple of weeks ago and once again I am stuck at Point A. I would have no qualms with a long distance relationship, but lately she's been ignoring me and I doubt it will work....</p>
<p>Haha I know how you feel…because I was in the same situation…a couple of weeks ago. HOWEVER, I got over it. Because you see, you need to think about your future too.
I’m not sure what year you’re in, assuming you’re in high school? …so I’ll say this:
Forget about her, and focus on your studies. Chances are, if she’s not concerned about you, she’s probably NOT worth the thinking. It’s just a waste of time, and will just cause more pain.
Now, just focus on your SAT’s (if you haven’t taken it…or you want a better score) and aim for high 2000’s (possibly even a perfect score, if you have the ability…which I don’t…haha) Focus on sports or activities you like. Focus on your classes. Taking AP’s? Aim for 5’s or 4’s on the test. If your school doesn’t offer it, self study them. It’s manageable. Most of my friends self taught AP physics, chem, calc, and APUSH themselves along with their AP courses. Most received 4’s and some 5’s.
SO my point is. Forget about your feelings. And make yourself EVEN MORE VALUABLE. Just think; you must be lacking in SOMETHING for her not to “SEE” you.
So take this chance and boost yourself up, academically… get into top universities.
Trust me. There, you will find beautiful, talented, and nice girls that would be worth the thinking. ;)</p>
<p>sorry…that was long. but i had to go through all this thinking too, before school started. and i will be doing the same SO CHEER UP, AND FORGET ABOUT EVERYTHING. </p>
<p>^Lol this is the high school equivalent of FBGM. </p>
<p>But seriously, it’s a bad idea to keep focusing on her. From the way you described your situation, it’s probably not gonna work out. Sampim has good advice, especially the advice to make yourself “even more valuable.” Use this as a self-improvement opportunity. Although, don’t become that kid who’s obsessed with school, represses their feelings, and lacks a social life in the name of “self-improvement” either. It’s a fine line to walk.</p>
get into top universities.