<p>CA_girl:
Have you made a list of all the schools you are in at?
Make a pro/con list. It really helps to sort out what you do and dont like about particular schools. Also make a list of what you want and dont want in a college. </p>
<p>Dont make your decision to please or displease anyone but yourself. In the end you are the one who will be attending the school; you need to be happy there. As for Bryn Mawr, have you visited there yet? That would be a very important part of your decision process. It is impossible to visualize yourself at a school when you have not had the opportunity to actually see it.</p>
<p>If you go the route of the bigger school you need to join some clubs/activities. Your dorm will also provide you with a social network. I would not fret about that too much, unless you are the type of person to become overwhelmed easily. UCSD feels so much smaller due to the college system. In your college you will have the equivalent of a small school environment. </p>
<p>My daughter did not like UCSD. She is a very fun and outgoing person, and found the campus to be a little too quiet and serious. Here are the schools she likes in order and why.</p>
<h1>1. UCD</h1>
<p>Athletics are excellent. They have football, and the UC supports the program. She is an athlete and will play her sport so this is a huge priority for her. The school has excellent spirit. Go Aggies!
Academics are excellent. She is majoring in managerial economics. UCD has a reputation for being an excellent school where we live, and she knows she will get a superb education.
Social/academic mix is balanced right and there is always something fun to do. Great Greek system. Awesome college town environment. (Big priority for her)</p>
<h1>2. UCSB</h1>
<p>Gorgeous campus
IV has the college town environment she wants, but there is too much partying. She did not find enough other activity and knows she would quickly tire of the party environment.
Sports are not well supported by the UC. Poor school spirit.
Academics are excellent and the opportunities in her major are strong. </p>
<h1>3. Bucknell</h1>
<p>Gorgeous campus! Great college town environment
Work hard/play hard ethic
Amazing Greek system
School supports and encourages athletics. Great school spirit
Strong academics w/great opportunities in her major.
$40,000 dollars a year (we cant afford it)</p>
<h1>4. UCSD</h1>
<p>Quiet campus too serious for my D
Not a college town
UC does not support the athletics dept. Poor school spirit
Excellent academics, but she was admitted into sixth college her third choice :(</p>
<p>Have you considered UCD? It really is a great school, and might have some of the balance you seem to be looking for. Out of the schools you have mentioned I like Bucknell for you. I think it is an excellent school, and it does have everything going for it. Perhaps you should try to arrange a visit there.</p>
<p>I hope some of this helps! Please post what you decide :)</p>