<p>Different people have different values. My wife and I both grew up poor, yet went to top schools thanks to generous financial aid, including a free ride to MIT for me. I’ve always felt an obligation to ensure that my kids could have the freedom of choice to go where they wanted to. We’ve never bought a new car. We didn’t buy the most expensive house we could afford, but did buy a decent house in a good school district. </p>
<p>When my oldest was about 4, in 1996, we started saving for college, calculating how much we would need by taking the then current cost of MIT and increasing it by 4% a year, and then assuming that we would earn 8% on stock investments and 4% on bond investments, we had a number with which we would consider college fully funded. </p>
<p>For a while, we put a huge chunk of my paycheck into the all-stock college fund until at some point near the end of the internet boom (I didn’t know it would end), I cashed out enough of my startup’s stock options to fully fund the college fund. I tried to have the college fund track the college cost trajectory, so when the market went down by enough, I increased the holdings, and when it went up too fast, I sold some holdings. When the oldest turned 14, whenever the market rallied, we started guiding the money, about a year’s cost at a time, to safer investments. 2008 was tough but we just poured new money into the college fund so that we continued to guide the fund to safety. When the kids each deposited at their respective colleges, I used the appropriate college prepayment plans to hedge against tuition inflation. </p>
<p>We’ve now paid for college for two kids without a nickel of financial aid or scholarships, still live in the same house, still drive used cars, though much nicer ones, and are starting to treat ourselves more and more often. We’ve been fortunate over the years and built up a nice endowment to ensure a good retirement. </p>
<p>Even without the startup though, the college fund was our highest priority after getting a decent house in a good school district. If I had needed to, I would have borrowed whatever it cost. We both value the education of our kids above all else, most likely because we’ve each seen the benefits that our education has brought us compared to where we started out. </p>
<p>D1 just graduated , got a great education, and got a great job. I’m proud of her and I feel that I got my money’s worth. D2 is also doing great in the private college of her choice. </p>
<p>I understand that not everybody shares my values, but my values are the ones that colleges expect. </p>