<p>how to ask out girls:</p>
<p>-give them a good quick spank
-say "want to...?" and wink</p>
<p>How is it that a girl who looks like Marilyn Monroe with long brown hair could be so shy? I've given her plenty of chances to meet me, she never takes them. I'm good with the signals and there's obviously mutual attraction, but she never approaches. Her best friend and a few other people were playing a trivia board game with me in class (sort of a day off), and we were obviously having a lot of fun, everyone was laughing at my jokes and antics, but she refused to join us even when her friend asked. I just don't get that. Why she would rather be alone than have fun with her best friend and the guy that she likes. Even if she DIDN'T like me, she still should have joined in. Maybe I should have asked her. I think that's another signal, that the fact that I was there made her shy about joining in. Screw the signals. I should have patted my lap and said, "Sit them buns down here, honey."</p>
<p>On another note, I think the best friend is starting to like me a little. She's asked a few personal questions, and stands kinda close. </p>
<p>I'm going to submit this story to Penthouse.</p>
<p>Caught me, AIM!</p>
<p>AIM: Use the best friend thing to your advantage. I don't know why, but if you get really close to the best friend (and you don't like her as in like her like her) and just tell her how you feel about the other one, I don't know how this works, but the friend will become your ally to get her friend.</p>
<p>aim78, maybe Marilyn knows that her best friend likes you. Maybe that's why she's trying to stay away. Ever think of that?</p>
<p>Penthouse won't accept the story if there's no sex.</p>
<p>I'll get back to you.</p>
<p>cash'd- i know exactly how you feel, I go to an all-girls high school and find it very very hard to meet guys (any suggestions?). i keep telling myself there's always college- but then i feel sad that i missed out on the whole high school experience.</p>
<p>I went to a normal high school and I still missed out on the high school experience
if that makes any sense</p>
<p>Geek Romance: <a href="http://home.earthlink.net/%7Esctrojan99/funny/geek.htm%5B/url%5D">http://home.earthlink.net/~sctrojan99/funny/geek.htm</a></p>
<p>idontknow:
I can understand how you're feeling. I'm afraid college is going to be an awkward experience (even if it's only for the first few weeks or so) because it'll be the co-ed setting, which'll be very different that the high school setting. Spending nearly 7 hours in school per day, and then having to do homework and study for APs doesn't help either. I noticed on your other thread on college chances that you did an incredible amount of community service - I noticed that community service helps me to meet girls, but I'm not sure how it's been for you meeting guys (depending on where you did community service). But yeah, I'm a bit confused as well as to how to go about meeting girls. Missing out on the high school experience has hurt a lot, because you don't have interaction with the opposite sex.</p>
<p>I'm a bit short on suggestions in that even boys at all-boys schools are struggling with the same type of problem. Sometimes our school organizes activities with a local all-girls high school, but these activities are 1) very rare and 2) the girl to boy ratio at these activities is bad (like 1 girl to 3 guys), so there's no chance of meeting new girls. I guess joining a sports team or doing community service are the only feasible options. But, if you have any suggestions on how to meet girls, feel free to say.</p>
<p>I'm scared I won't be able to break out of my shell and meet guys in college. I go to a public (co-ed), but I'm really shy and I worry college will just be another 4 yrs. of high school socially</p>
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this goes to celebrian too.</p>
<p>you have nothing to worry about. basically, for the most part, it comes down to (and yes this is shallow) are you attractive? if not you can always lose weight, get rid of pimples, take pride in how you look, etc. and it doesn't hurt to flirt.</p>
<p>note about flirting to girls: don't be obvious about it. flirting shouldn't be declaring. it should be teasing.</p>
<p>and all you singlesexschoolpeople will have classes with the other sex (most likely) in college, so that will at least be easier.</p>
<p>and just to add to what I talked about before, I heard on the news this weekend that 17% of guys don't like women making the first move.</p>
<p>this reminds me of that movie revenge of the nerds</p>
<p>The problem is i'm not attractive. At all. And the only way to fix it would be to take over someone else's body.</p>
<p>bah, don't believe that. anyone can look half-decent if you really make an effort to change. like asalientone said, just start working out, get your skin cleared, hair done, get a tan, wear nice clothes, perfume, nails etc, and i guarantee plenty of guys will be hitting on you. as for getting used to talking to people, practice makes perfect. you're never going to come out of your shell until you start kicking your way out of it. the time between now and next fall is enough time to make a change if you are really motivated.</p>
<p>yes. ivy's correct. subscribe to cosmo or whatever magazine is the female equivalent to "men's health." anyone can look decent, looking decent for you just might require some more work than it might for others. don't go crazy and get bad self tans and become anorexic and wear a gallon of perfume, but do all those things at a level that will make you attractive. if your teeth are crooked, ask your parents to spring for braces. if you're fat, I absolutely promise you that no matter who you are, what your genes are, how you've been brought up, you can lose weight right now (<em>arguably</em> this is the most important thing).</p>
<p>and you probably are more attractive than you think you are. all girls think they're less attractive than they are.</p>
<p>how do u get your skin cleared?</p>
<p>medication. see a dermatologist or doctor if you can</p>
<p>Eh, I'm not sure if all this advice of taking medication and other measures is necessary. Most girls are attractive as they are, without all the makeup and fancy stuff (at least in my opinion).</p>
<p>does anyone here find acne very attractive? it's usually just a cream or wash that you apply to your face to get rid of blemishes.</p>
<p>Ivyleaguechamp, I'm inferring you didn't understand my post very well. The CC'ers who have started posting suggestions on which magazines to subscribe to and what type of makeup to wear is total BS. Clearly, the media and fellow peers have already produced the image of the ideal girl, and you don't need to be preaching to people on how they should conduct their lifestyles - they've been told quite a few number of times already in a single day.</p>
<p>Instead of telling useless information such as using a cream or wash, which everyone knows already, just simply don't post. As I said before, most girls already are attractive. It's simply a matter of confidence; although I agree, acne wouldn't be found attractive, but people already know how to solve that problem. People already know this information, so why don't you post something constructive?</p>