<p>The OP started this thread asking how to deal with his parents. He did indicate later that he might be willing to talk to his school (assuming academic) counselor/advisor. Thats a great start. Often a person has to be uncomfortable, unhappy, in pain or had some struggle or identified concern or problem to help them recognize that seeing a therapist may be of assistance. If the OP is content with his lifestyle, there may be little impetus to change. However, if he is passed over for important opportunities ( eg research assistant) or encounters problems with classmates or faculty, he may be more motivated to pursue support or assistance.</p>
<p>Many college students struggle with social skill or adjustment issues. Many college counseling centers offer groups for anxiety or social skills. Perhaps the OP might consider participating in one of these, if the thought of interacting with a group of peers is not too uncomfortable.</p>