<p>Please don’t compromise your dreams/goals/aspirations/whatever you want to call it… for your girlfriend. Sooner or later, resentment will build up and your relationship will suffer. </p>
<p>Like the others have said, debt really isn’t worth it. Do what is best for you. College is for education. Make the most out of it.</p>
<p>It seems that you are a great guy who has done so much for your gf (even academically). If she can’t understand your decision, it does not seem like she is worth it. Do you even see yourself with her ten years down the road? </p>
<p>Good luck!</p>