<p>I have a very bright son who had excellent test scores, took a rigorous course load, etc. He lacked the internal motivation - or perhaps he simply lacked the desire - to attend a “prestigious” college. He is more than happy to go to a state school, especially since he didn’t have to try too hard to apply/be accepted. He’s now a freshman, and he is doing fine. I suspect he will go to grad school, so it’s important that he not feel pushed … I don’t want him getting burned out early because he is doing what someone else wants him to do. He will get where he needs to be, and he will be happy on the path to that point. Relax and let your son enjoy his life … he is doing fine so far. Trust him.</p>