<p>After April 1, ask him about his friends who are seniors: which colleges did they get into, and which ones turned them down. Both of you will be astonished at the number of smart kids who did not get into their top choice school. It’s a real eye-opener.</p>
<p>Help him get organized and schedule tests like the SAT II, but let him make some of his own decisions. After he gets his spring scores, he will be the one to decide whether to study for and retake the ACT or SATs. Let him grow up by taking responsibility for his college process. </p>
<p>I know these last 18 months before college are very difficult for families, so pick your battles carefully. There will be many to choose from…</p>