<p>^ i have an advice for you in that situation.</p>
<p>ask the two( who have a slight crush on you) about the girl you like. go like 'you are a girl. do you think i have a chance with that girl?' even if they feel kinda hurt, it still makes sure you guys are friends. friends so close that you talk about relationships, but nevertheless friends and no more. </p>
<p>hope that helps.</p>
<p>I seriously had to read the title of this thread like 4 times before I realized it said "liking", not "licking".</p>
<p>wow jimmy just wow. i would have to agree with want<em>a</em>schlorship. with friends its easy to have the "do i have a shot with him/her" conversation.</p>
<p>"even if they feel kinda hurt, it still makes sure you guys are friends."</p>
<p>that has happened to me, and i for one don't want to hear when you did or didn't hook up with someone.
and it doesnt really stop you from liking that person, it only hurts them.
but thats just my opinion.</p>
<p>GOod Idea, Scholar.</p>
<p>And lmao, Jim. XD</p>
<p>BUt, when, I think the whole point is to let them know for sure that they DON'T like you. And well, I know if my crush were to do that to me (>_<) I would be hurt, but I would know for definate sure that he didn't like me and I wouldn't do something foolish. Honestly, if I didn't already have a slightly clear idea that he doesn't like me, I seriously think I might have done something to upset our friendship.</p>
<p>i seriously considered talking to the guy i've been crushing on this weekend, but then i turned around....looked at the mirror.....and gave it right up. </p>
<p>WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?????</p>
<p>want<em>a</em>scholarship: the same thing that's wrong with me :p</p>
<p>same thing happened to me want<em>a</em>scholarship. last time i liked a girl, i coudl barely talk to her, even though we talked fine before i liked her. i was just awkward and avoided eye contact >_<. id get the nerve to talk and then when i saw her, i just drew blanks. i eventually got the nerve to ask her out, got rejected, but it felt bad(for obvious reasons) and good because it was off my chest and i got the courage to talk. NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU. that might work for you, but i dont know how you feel about girls asking guys out.</p>
<p>i don't know. i think girls asking guys out is pretty cool, but i just don't have the nerve. i didn't even think about going out with this guy- i can't even let him know i like him. ehh</p>
<p>want<em>a</em>scholarship I'm in the same situation. I don't mind who asks who out, but I think I'd just die if he even knew I liked him!</p>
<p>by dying, you mean in a good way, right? :)
also, his best friend at church is this guy who beat my lil bro up once....which is really weird. that guy actually took a 9 year old's gameboy away and beat him up as he said he wanted it back.</p>
<p>Woah. That is one evil best friend I've got to say!</p>
<p>yeah. i had to stop myself from kicking him from the back...i was reminded of draco malfoy and the ferret.</p>
<p>wow. is it possible to develop a crush on someone that you've known for two days? my family friend brought his roommate over for thanksgiving, and we all hung out on thurs / fri . the sad thing is that the chances of seeing him again are very very slim :(</p>
<p>in two days? i guess it's possible...</p>
<p>^wouldn't it be great if we had more control over who we like! I like people who I don't even know why I like them. My friends are like why in the heck do you have such a big crush on him, and I have no logical reasons. </p>
<p>But I hate that meet someone for a couple days and then you can't stop thinking about them, knowing you'll never see them again!</p>
<p>^I know what you mean. That happened to me last year after one of my debate team trips....It's very sad.</p>
<p>but if it's a one time thing, don't you forget about it?</p>
<p>The thing about me is when I like a guy I REALLY like him...it doesn't end just because he's gone. It goes on...for a very long time. I don't know why, but I have a hard time getting over guys</p>
<p>so heres my sob fest. My ex boy friend of a a year and a half and i are still good firends and we have the same circle. Him and two of our guy friends came in from college this weekend...and his best friend, one of my good freinds, started texting me while we were sitting there and obviously putting the moves on me.
So i played along, ive always had a lil crush on him and now its blowing up in my face. He texts me late at night after a long night telling me to ***** it and lets do it and make thigns work..and then goes back on his word 5 min later about how he cant do it. AAAYyyii...now one of my best girlfriends found out and is making me feel horrible..like its my fault. </p>
<p>o to answer the question. one of my firneds i talked to about this goes...thnk about him taking a crap...</p>
<p>still like him?
haha.
let me knwo what u think i shoudl do about the shinanigans that just happend!</p>