<p>I know that you can't completely stop liking someone... but I just want the feeling to ebb down a bit. There is this girl in my Spanish class that has been <em>jokingly</em> flirting with me, and I somehow came onto her.... A few weeks later I was very bored, so I went onto Facebook and made a stupid decision by posting a status stating that I would post who I liked if the status got 25 likes. I didn't think that it would happen, but it did, and I gave into peer pressure and posted her name. She found out within 20 minutes of me posting it. The next day at school was awkward, but she still said hi to me. She stopped the flirting. Now, today, people were talking about how she got into a relationship with some other guy. I checked on Twitter... and it seems to be true. At school today, she started to flirt with me again, but that was hours before I found out that she had just started a relationship. I really don't want to like her.... It's cruel to jokingly flirt with someone, especially if you KNOW that they like you AND that you are in a relationship. I would greatly appreciate any helpful advice from anyone.</p>
<p>Pick out all the things she does wrong, the things that get on your nerves, and focus on those. Liking another girl might also help…</p>
<p>I’ve been in this situation a million times because I always fall for guys, give into pressure to tell my friends or family who it is, and then spend months pining. The only way to get over someone is to fill your life completely with school, activities, work and friends so you have no time to think about them. If you’ve already done this, then just come up with something totally random to take your mind off her. Like every time you catch yourself thinking about her, you could start trying to name every country in the world. Then you’ll be thinking about that instead.</p>