<p>the thing with me is that if a guy likes me, I would prefer him to do the asking. I like guys that are straight forward (if the guy isn't straight forward in a relationship, who's going to be? I mean most girls .. including me.. are not going to be) if I have a crush on a guy that I don't know too well ( and by that I mean I might have some classes with him,, but do not hang out with him every day) then I would have no problem letting him know my feelings, but not nessesarily ask him out. but if the crush is on a close friend thats when things get really complicated. I have more trouble telling my friends how I feel about them because for some reason thing I say just doesnt sound like how I meant for them to be.
I avoid developing relationships with close friends because I'm afraid of damaging the friendship.. and this fear alone is enough for me to stop liking them I guess.</p>
<p>Hmm me? I don't like having to get over crushes, I like having crushes. Maybe it sounds weird, but it feels great to have a crush on someone, and just let thoughts of hopelessness (that sinks in later...) drift aside....</p>
<p>omg i know i hadnt had a crush since the ex....and it felt so fun to have butterflies and stuff...but now its just blowing up in my face... :( we agreed that nothign can happen betwen us right now...</p>
<p>ppoor me.</p>
<p>even talking about 'ex's and stuff is a luxury to me...hahah</p>
<p>the guy i like is one of my friends. I'm trying to get over liking him. But he just found out i like him from one of my friends. what should i do when I see him in school tomorrow? anything? im so embarrased.</p>
<p>Well if youre feeling ballsy enough... umm... try talking to him. There is truly nothing to be worried about, as it's only natural for humans to feel affection towards one another. A genuinely good guy would be honored if he knew that you liked him :)</p>
<p>I'm getting over the guy I've been thinking a lot about lately. I prefer to just sit here and only think of him, but after a while a person comes to the realization that nothing can ever come of it, and it's useless to sit around waiting. There are a lot of other guys even in my school, and I'm sick of liking people who don't know I exist :)</p>
<p>just be confident and act like u dont know he knwos. if he brings it up be like hellll yea ur hott! and no guy can really be ****ed at hearing that! and just dont let him see ur hurt if he shoots u down...which he prolyl wont considering ur prolyl the only girl brave enough to be blunt. do it,.it works for me ;)</p>
<p>You can like me celebrian, I know you exist :)</p>
<p>Actually just wait for college... the right guys will be all over you (not literally, unless thats what you want of course)</p>
<p>im liking one of my friends and hating it...and i cant help it.</p>
<p>i cant wait for college where there will be more than around 3 nice and smart guys available.</p>
<p>College is like this far away dream to me right now. This is such a horrible year, and I just don't want to be here anymore. I have friends who have been going to school with these guys for 13+ years, and I've been going to school with them since 7th grade, so it's kind of like there's nothing good left :)</p>
<p>I know exactly what you mean. I have 3000 people in my school, and I'm just tired of the same old thing. Not limited to girls either...</p>
<p>I'm a little sick of the people. There are 437 people in my senior class, and I'm just tired of people doing the same everyday...</p>
<p>I thought the same thing today while walking in the hall. I don't talk to people outside of class anymore, in fact, in my head it's dead silent in the hall. It's crazy, because it's like a movie when somone stops their ears up.</p>
<p>I had the same feeling in ap chem today. We we're doing some problems and I just sat there thinking, "this seems like a movie. Like I'm watching someone else's life". In the halls I just block everything out, it's like I'm the only one there.</p>
<p>Yeah at the beginning of the year the halls felt so packed, now it's like I'm the only one. Oh and that's my entire life. Everything I do feels like a scene from a movie. I love it, and it's probably what drives me into film.</p>
<p>For me, it's like my motivation for high school is shot, but I have a greater motivation, to go on to the next part of my life, or as david thoreau put it, to live the life i have imagined</p>
<p>danke. ahh... soo nervous. gl to all you other ppl who are struggling w. crushes and whatnot.</p>
<p>I think everyone's been in this type of situation...unfortunately. </p>
<p>My current situation is pretty...>.<. Basically, rumor that he liked me, but I think he only thought I was cute. We were pretty good friends I guess. I had a major crush on his friend, ended up going out with him, and my (current crush) started talking to me less. After his friend broke up with me, he just stopped talking to me. Then, I started liking him....he doesn't even say hi to me in the hallways anymore...Tried to force myself to stop liking him, but as usual doesn't work.</p>
<p>Never think you will never have a chance. I never thought I had a chance with my ex but I did. Things change, and sometimes, the most unlikely happens. It's pretty hard to get over someone. For me, when I forced myself, I just ended up liking them more. It's better to just let it naturally go away. That's how it has alway been with my crushes.</p>
<p>Um, to the OP, even though lots of people have already responded I just wanted to say that I know how you feel.....I liked this guy at my school for about 3 1/2 years, and he never liked me back and it sucked! one day i was just SO sick of liking him and hoping that he would like me more when he obviously wouldn't that i just said "that's it, no more". that was about 2 1/2 years ago, and I have never liked him since.<br>
anyway hope it works out somehow.</p>