<p>So i like my best friend and she knows that i like her. but i cant get her off my mind. i try to do other things like studying but i just end up writing her name all over my book. i know she will never like me back. i cant think of her flaws cause in my world shes perfect, i cant not talk to her cause she my best friend. what do i do. i dont want to like her</p>
<p>I have an ex-boyfriend who will talk to me for 4 hours or more, play video games with me, and have inside jokes... And yet, if I ask him out, he will 90% probably say no. So I know how you feel :)
You need to be happy with yourself. Really. I spent the last two weeks stressing because my OTHER ex-boyfriend (the more recent one) dumped me, yada yada, he's all over some other girl. And it was until the other day when I realized I'm not stuck single, I just AM single. Maybe not because I want to be, but I don't have to be. I have two guys who would literally jump if I said jump, and ask how high. Self-esteem boost? Yes. The ability to say no? Amazingly good for your peace of mind.</p>
<p>I tend to obsess over certain girls. I find that after a period of time I lose interest if they are not interested in me b/c I find rejection unattractive.</p>
<p>You cant like her if shes dead just sayin'</p>
<p>I think befriending people you like is good. I liked this one guy for so long, and now we're pretty cool ANC it just seems so weird for me to think of him that way. Of course I liked him when I was 12, so a lot of things have changed since then.
The guy I'm into now, I'm friends with. When I pass him in the halls without saying anything, I can't help but to think "OMG, he's perfect" or something. But when I'm hanging out with him, it's just an entirely different dynamic. At those times he's totally my friend. And it helps to know us being together would just cause heartbreak and despair, since next year he'll be back home, thousands of miles and two-ish continents away. He'll come back every other year for this weird uni program be's doing, but it wouldn't really matter.</p>
<p>yeah i kind of like my best friend..it's like the worst thing ever. but i know he has liked me before, but it never really developed into a relationship. but recently he has kind of hit on me a little bit.. but i don't think he wants a relationship.. pretty much just to hook up with me.</p>
<p>lol. this thread is...yea.
at least im practically being forced to give it up.</p>
<p>Just find faults with him/her and only think about those when you see them. Sooner than later you'll get over him/her.</p>
<p>Go to a party and watch him drunk. That should fix it.</p>
<p>hmm, i liked a guy for 3 years and then he went out with my best friend. problem solved. </p>
<p>then there was another guy that i had sort of had a crush on for years, but i never thought hed even notice me, let alone like me. then one day he started leaving me these really cute notes and confessed to me that he had seen me around a lot but was always too shy to say anything. we went out for a bit.</p>
<p>my current best friend also likes me, and he knows i know, but we just dont talk about it. we go out for dinner and hes slept over my house and we go to cities and things like that a lot, but i would never date him. </p>
<p>also, i am sort of still in love with my most recent ex, even though he is terrible for me. after a while i start to just think of exes as if theyre characters in a movie i watched a while ago.</p>
<p>i guess ive experienced many sides of this kind of thing, but i dont think there is a way of getting over people besides time/someone else</p>
<p>i liked the same guy for about four years. and we talked constantly every single day all hours of the night in the shower no matter what was going on. and it didnt help that i went to school with him for three years. then i switched out and went to a new school because i decided that i was in way to deeep in love with him and figured if i got away from seeing him everyday maybe it would help my feelings go away. but everywhere i went i was constantly reminded of him. matter of fact in the new school i attended there was actually someone there with the exact first and last name as him spelt the same way tooo. (as if that wasnt freaking me out). and that same year my new school started versing my old school for sports so he came to my schoool alot for games so i always still saw him. but then one day i decided that this is not helping me and is unhealthy to like someone so much that your basically dedicated to him when he doesnt feel the same way about you. so i texted him and was like you know how much i like you now i want you to be honest even if it is mean as to why you dont feel the same way about me. and it was pretty mean but i asked for it because i knew if there was a goood reason that i can finally have the truth out there its gunna help. he actually told me that he had been faking everything he felt towards me for four years and that he hated me. and i was happy that he said that because i wanted to get over him so bad. at first i was so mad and i <strong><em>ed him out till no end about how much of an </em></strong> he was. then i was like happy about how much ******** he put me through now i know how to react with guys because he put me through every stage. a month passed and i took my time getting him out of my life by getting all my memories of him and reading/looking over them and when i was done i threw them all away. the next week i was sitting in classes and got enough balls to delete his number off my phone. and now i am completely over him. getting over someone who you have loved so much you cant even explain is the hardest thing to get over because there always on your mind. but it takes time and if you put a good effort in and do everything i did in steps. over time you will get your old life back and be able to move on and thank your special someone in your life for teaching you a lesson. i also noticed on here and in my own life that people who have not physically gone through it themselves can screw off because if it was truly easy to get over someone ,dont you think we would be over the person already? its very difficult. so i took the time to explain how i someone who has been through it and has had success. if you have any questions for me realtionship wise or anything else please feel free to contact @ <a href="mailto:snowbunnietoo@aol.com">snowbunnietoo@aol.com</a> and i will be happy to assist you and give advice in anyway i can.
hope i helpeddd</p>
<p>-kayla</p>
<p>theres no way T_T</p>
<p>I had a crush on a guy for a day(couple of days actually but I don’t want to admit that to myself), n’ I’m completely over him now. All you have to do to get over a guy is think about ALL of the bad things about him and keep repeating them to yourself. It’s way easy from there.</p>
<p>i agree 100% :)</p>
<p>thanx, I’m just sayin’ it worked for me :)</p>
<p>yeah its so much easier to just focus on their faults</p>
<p>mhm, although I’m not completely sure about being over him.</p>
<p>aww really? it literally took me almost a year and it feels sooo good lol</p>
<p>haha, I’m sure it does. I want to say I’m over him but at the same time I’m not sure. When he txts me, I still txt back. I txted him today actually… :/</p>
<p>well, he txted me n’ i txted back</p>
<p>dont you hate that? just when you’re about to let go they pull you right back in! that always happens and its soooo hard to resist</p>
<p>I do hate it, n’ it is EXTREMELY hard to resist, ugh, then If I get on Facebook, I see pictures… :/</p>