<p>Yeah, but it’s hard when you have limited/no mutual friends with them and don’t see them around all that much.</p>
<p>I personally am terrified of being the first one to talk to a person I just met. I’m so afraid that they’ll think me to be annoying/stupid that I don’t even bother.</p>
<p>You use your leg muscles to walk up to that perticular person then you send an electrical signal from your brain to your voicebox causing it to vibrate. A rather complex mechanism involving several cranial nerves cause various muscles in your mouth to move in different ways with the effect of turning sound into language, at this point I might add that it would beprefereable to speak to this stranger in a way that he/she knows so that he/she can decipher these noises and using his/her cerebral cortex interpret them.</p>
<p>Usually, the first time I talk to a member of either sex I have never spoken to is by making a comment in a conversation between them and a friend.</p>
<p>If you don’t necessarily have any mutual friends, it’s probably best to start with “Hi,” or a non-threatening yet not “nice-guy”-ish compliment.</p>
<p>Anytime you treat a tiny social interaction in isolation, you’re bound to be a weirdo. Make it natural. You should already be near them so turning towards them to say something isn’t unnatural. If you feel like you’re making this grand, considered gesture, you’re going to come off as creepy.</p>