how to talk to the opposite sex

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<li>Don’t hover around him/her thinking about what to say, especially if s/he is your crush. It’s creepy, especially for guys (if you’re a girl). I suppose the same for girls.</li>
<li>Sit around and listen to the conversation. If s/he is sitting talking to a friend, sit next to them and listen. If something pops out at you, you can interject. Make sure you don’t come across as rude though.</li>
<li>Don’t act too kind. A bit creepy and it can really annoy some people. It also puts them in a difficult social situation and s/he may not want to talk to you the next time.</li>
<li>Be kind. Of course you can be kind without being excessive! There’s no need to smile constantly, just be yourself.</li>
<li>Trust yourself. Jeez, what’s s/he gonna do, tell you to go away? No.</li>
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<p>Comments? Suggestions? :)</p>

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<p>Why would you need a how-to in the first place?</p>

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<p>You're thinking too much about it. I just... start talking.</p>

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<p>^exactly!...unfortunately, there is that shy dude out there</p>

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<p>What's up with all the dating post lately</p>

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<p>Wow lolololols this is one of the funniest things I have ever read.</p>

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<p>lol. . .hovering. xd</p>

<p>meh i donno, if you like them be all smiley. that's what i do. maybe it's not good though. it just comes naturally lol</p>

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<p>haha, what a thread. girl/guy tips online? shady</p>

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<p>buy them a drink
or randoly go up and day, hey i havent see u around
or if u have seen them arnd (n they know it) say hey i have always seen u arnd bt never knew ur name.
and then extend the topic further to whatever man. academics. parties. common acqaintences. just be confident</p>

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<p>typical CC thread...</p>

<p>heres some advice... try talking</p>

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<p>^ that's the reason the thread was formed...</p>

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<p>lol</p>

<p>1: uh....hey
2: <em>silence</em>
1: <em>cries</em></p>

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<p>lulz, lol</p>

<p>;)</p>

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<p>Pretend it's your friend of the same sex...</p>

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<p>OK. "Be kind" should come before "Don't act too kind", no?
And, lol "hovering". I feel like a spaceship now XD</p>

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<p>hahaha this is the funniest thread i've ever seen on CC.</p>

<p>you know what's weird? I find it easier to talk to people of the opposite sex when I meet new people... I think it's because I usually feel like I'm getting "sized up" (judged) when I first meet people of the same gender, and therefore feel more self conscious.</p>

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<p>0.2+ respect for the moderate epic lulz.</p>