<p>Oh I have never heard of any of those bands ( well I have heard of Kaddisfly but I think they are local)</p>
<p>the ones I have seen are Kings of Leon, Black Rebel Motorcycle club and Wilco but I don't even know if someone in college would think they are too mainstream ( there were lots of kids at the all ages shows though)
My D also works with a muscian who is in Strangers Die Every day ( actually she is his boss)
Oh and I really like Hypatia Lake.
but I don't really know what is considered alternative- I mean is Pearl Jam alternative?</p>
<p>But my point I guess is, as long as he is in a big enough place that bands come to play- he can find others to share his interests with, even if he has to drag them along once or twice.</p>
<p>The nice thing about nowdays is it is easy to find local people online- for instance I just turned 50 & most of my friends like jazz or chamber music.
However, through attending fundraisers for causes that my favorite band supports I have met lots of local people that I am getting to know.</p>
<p>I know what you are going through. For instance my oldest D attended private school K-12.
When she was in grade school, she was in the first graduating class ;) of any size ( 10 kids). Because of that, several kids had transferred the previous year ( aided by the knowledge that several schools- namely Overlake & Lakeside start at 5th grade & while it seems mildly humourous to me now, their chances of admittance was much improved by applying in 5th rather than 6th)
While she did have some rough spots, ultimately it seemed better to work them out, than to attempt the unknown.
( fr instance there was a girl in her class, that just seemed to be able to push all her buttons & to persist in doing so. That situation didn't seem to resolve itself while she was in grade school, but since she was changing schools for middle school, we reasoned that this particular problem wouldn't follow her.----- wrong-- even though this young lady had planned on attending a different school, at the parent orientation meeting guess who walked in!- However, they even got to become friends, although she transferred a couple years later, after her mothers didn't feel the school handled an incident appropriately- )</p>
<p>I think your son is just going to have to tough out the decision and then whatever he decides make it work.</p>
<p>For instance while when D went to Reed, she felt like " I have found my people", I can also see her having attended other schools & perhaps even a different school would have been a smoother experience.</p>
<p>An undergrad degree is really not that long, and even if everything isn't utopia, finding ways to make it a success for him, will help with other less than perfect fits down the road.</p>
<p>If he had a pretty sucky high school experience though, I can see the motivation to wanting a much better college experience.</p>