<p>I'm a 17 year old boy. I found a yahoo group about DC sex events by searching a username by dad sometimes uses for online things. it was from 2003, and it said things about how he wanted to meet a girl while he was down there. I just found this. his age was the exact same age it should have been, and he spelt his name Jon instead of John. It also said that he is a white male, which he is. I'm really scared right now. When talking about how my uncle cheated on my aunt a while ago with my mom, she said that if anyone ever did that to her should would get a divorce and not take him back. My parents have been married since before I was born. Please tell me what I should do. I don't want my parents to get divorced, but I am bad at holding in secrets. I also think it's going to be tough to look at my dad in the same way as I did before. I have a better relationship with my mom than I do with my dad; I feel like I can talk to her more about things. please help me; I don't know what to do.</p>
<p>DC sex events are not nearly as interesting as they sound.</p>
<p>When you go snooping around, expect to find things you didn’t want to know. </p>
<p>But anyway, do what you feel is right. Just remember, you have no evidence your dad cheated on your mom.</p>
<p>This is a really delicate situation, and there is no 100% right course of action to take. In my opinion, I think you should confront your Dad first, and listen to what he has to say. Then, depending on whether or not you trust his answer, you should decide on whether or not to tell your Mom. You should take action, I think, because if you don’t, you might forever disdain your Dad for something that might be a misunderstanding. I really hope it’s a misunderstanding… Good luck, and only you can know what to do. So think about it, pick a plan, and stick with it. Seriously, good luck, and keep us updated. I hope it all turns out all right.</p>
<p>I was in the same boat you are in back when I was 9. My dad cheated on my mom with one of his coworkers. My mom found out after a lady at my dad’s work called her and told her he was cheating on her. They divorced after 20 years of marriage and have been divorced for over 7 years. It was really hard at first, but now my mom is a lot happier without him.
You should tell someone. It doesn’t have to be your mom, just someone you trust. In the end, the decision is yours. It’s their problem, not yours. Just know that divorce isn’t the end of the world and you never know what the future will hold.</p>
<p>my mom cheated on my dad with a guy she would tell me was her friend… i feel sick to this day that my dad was the last to know. talk to your dad, gently, then proceed from there, it may be an awful coincidence.</p>
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<p>o’rly</p>
<p>What’s wrong with that?</p>
<p>^some people have step-parents</p>
<p>^@ tcbh :not everyone marries before having a child, he was pointing out that their marriage must have been motivated by more than a pregnancy…</p>
<p>^ TCBH is saying o’rly because since a most people’s parents, if they’re married, have been married since before they were born. It’s sort of a weird way to describe the length of your parents marriage.</p>
<p>yay for explaining the joke to make it less funny.</p>
<p>I don’t really know what I would do in that situation. Probably nothing since I haven’t <em>really</em> talked to my father for the last 2 years, he still scares me, I’m already convinced he’s a horrible person, and my mother is divorcing him as soon as I leave the house anyway.
I would definitely say talk to your father before saying anything rash to your mother.</p>
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<p>True, but it’s the norm. Most would assume that the parents were already married.</p>
<p>Ughhh bad situation. If you have really incriminating evidence and if you find this incriminating enough, then I would tell your mom. Perhaps they already have marital problems if your dad went out and did that. If she would be happier knowing then I would tell her. But yeah, delicate situation. Maybe just stay in your role as “child”? I don’t know.</p>
<p>Reminds me of when I found porn on my dad’s computer and under his bed… bad memories. o.o</p>