<p>I'm a 17 year old boy. I found a yahoo group about DC sex events by searching a username by dad sometimes uses for online things. it was from 2003, and it said things about how he wanted to meet a girl while he was down there. I just found this. his age was the exact same age it should have been, and he spelt his name Jon instead of John. It also said that he is a white male, which he is. I'm really scared right now. When talking about how my uncle cheated on my aunt a while ago with my mom, she said that if anyone ever did that to her should would get a divorce and not take him back. My parents have been married since before I was born. Please tell me what I should do. I don't want my parents to get divorced, but I am bad at holding in secrets. I also think it's going to be tough to look at my dad in the same way as I did before. I have a better relationship with my mom than I do with my dad; I feel like I can talk to her more about things. I posted this in this forum because I thought that parents would know better about what to do. please help me.</p>
<p>I would suggest talking to a high school guidance counselor, therapist, priest, etc. I don’t think you should get in the middle of whatever problems your parents are having in their marriage with sexual infidelity. Of course, you will meet other adults that would tell you to get involved. That’s why I’m suggesting you talking in a theraputic situation about your feelings rather than simply “poll” a group of adults on a chat forum. That said, I probably wouldn’t say anything at this time.</p>
<p>Annika</p>
<p>That is a really tough situation and I don’t know the right answer. My initial thought is to talk to another adult who you trust with confidentiality, like a religious counselor (your priest, minister, rabbi, etc) and then talk to your Dad with that person.</p>
<p>It may be just some one goofing around and not at all serious or it could be the tip of the iceberg, it would be nice to figure that out!</p>