<p>Hey guys..
I am going to college soo..UVa. I am pretty happy to get it. I am out of state. Well, I feel very low and inconfident cuz i am not tall... i m just 5'3 male..and i feel very very down at times cuz i cant increase now..i m 19 and think wont increase now...I will face a lotsa probs like dating,job later etc...anyone can help me??i would be great ful</p>
<p>interesting..</p>
<p>comeon man..u can be serious..</p>
<p>You got in to UVA from out of state--so you must be pretty smart! Feel good about that --use your brains to do well in college and jobs should not be a problem. As for dates--plenty of girls are 5' 3'' or less and some taller girls don't mind dating a shorter guy. Smart girls are interested in your personality, conversation, and character. You can't change your height but you can be a sympathetic, intelligent, worthwhile person. UVA has a lot to offer and I'm sure you do too--so go for it! If depressed feelings get you down--don't be afraid to seek counseling at your college health center.</p>
<p>Getting a good job and girl is all about personality and character. Trust me on both accounts, people could care less about height if you have good character.</p>
<p>um. . . look you'll always come across shallow people and shallow girls for that matter. but you've gotta remember that the ones that are shallow, aren't really worth it. and smart girls aren't shallow. and jobs, companies would rather look at your college record rather than how tall you are. dont worry.</p>
<p>:). . . . . . . . . . :)</p>
<p>ill be your buddy :)</p>
<p>You want to be EVERYbody's buddy blueflame. I'm starting to think there wont be enough blueflame to go around.</p>
<p>dude I'm a 5'6 male who has felt some of the same things you felt. Just remember no ones is perfect and everyone has things about them that they want to change. When you wake up each morning you can be sad about all of your problems and trust me there are people with more than you, or you can accept your shortcomings (No pun intended) and focus on your strengths. You will figure out that in life many unbearable things will be out of your hands, recognize it and move on.</p>
<p>As for your second problem, don't worry about that. It's true that higher people on AVERAGE<- Key word earn more, but it could be because on AVERAGE they have more self-confidence. So just be confident and unless the job you're applying for is professional basketball, your height won't matter. Also as for the girls, one of the hottest girls at my school is 5'2 so just keep looking and you'll be fine.</p>
<p>there will ALWAYS be enough blueflame to go around</p>
<p>yea, your life is pretty much ruined.</p>
<p>My Mom is taller than my dad. And I'm 5'1 and pretty hot ;). So don't worry, you will be fine. UVa is a full of gorgeous women. Some of them will be short - and some will be tall and open-minded!</p>
<p>Gonna need proof of these claims, MSF.</p>
<p>I second the notion.</p>
<p>wow 5'3</p>
<p>im like 5'7 1/2 and worried</p>
<p>I think you first need to work on your self-confidence, if anything. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade--or even better, just eat them straight up.</p>
<p>5'5 here. my friends have always made me painfully aware that i am very short, but other than that it doesnt bother me. i'm into girls that are shorter than me and they dont usually go for the short skinny guy so im kinda screwed in that aspect.</p>
<p>Girls usually do come better in "small packages". I'm not one to discriminate though as I've dated a 6'2 girl before. Yes, we did look odd, but it worked for a while...</p>
<p>okay. im not trying to be a bit<em>h. but if you really want to make you life easier, you have to stand out. at first people may be like, oh fck that guy, hes a short punk. but you can show them up.
you cant really call me an </em>**** for saying that cause im 5'2. sure i get punked on for being short, but i stand out by danceing. lots of people were like, oh, who the hell wants to be friends with that guy, but i was able make em think differently. its all up to you.</p>