<p>guyfromTTU, you seem to be unsure of how the dating process actually works. As a self-proclaimed ‘nerd’ myself, I can sit all day and say how I’m intelligent and have a great GPA and girls must be crazy to choose ‘losers’ over me–but that’s not going to make people like me; it’s only going to make people think I’m whiny and bitter. </p>
<p>Again, girls are not an award. They’re normal people. Girls don’t reject guys because they’re ‘too nice’. They might reject guys because they can0 sense that this person secretly believes that college girls “possess absolutely no intelligence whatsoever”, that girls are at fault for abuse because they have a “tendency to fall for losers, who treat them like garbage”, and the guy is only acting like a ‘nice guy’ to get her to date him.</p>
<p>If you think all of this , are you reappy the nice guy…?.. it doesn’t take work to get girls. Simply talking will suffice. Maybe one will surprise you. Try actually being the nice guy and maybe girls will flock to you. Nice guys finish last.</p>
<p>Well, both statements about intelligence and fault in abuse are absolutely true; and changing your views (on what you believe is true) just for the purpose of winning some girl’s admiration is not the best way to go.</p>
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<p>After reading the first few sentences, my instincts told me to check on the authors background. After typing the author’s name in google, the first thing that popped up is that he is a “Feminist. Liberal.” BOOM! For those who don’t know, feminism is a man-hatred ideology that creates a myth about “oppression of women,” and argues that man and women are “the same.” Complete non-sense.</p>
<p>As for content, it’s obvious that the author has absolutely no idea about a true “nice guy.” He identifies a “nice guy” as a male who fakes being nice, respectful, and courteous for the purpose of winning admiration and attracting love from the opposite gender. Well, that is exactly wrong; that’s not a “nice guy” whatsoever. A nice guy is “nice” just because he was raised to be nice; he was raised to be respectful; he is definitely not doing all those things for his own twisted purposes. And myself, as an outside observer, I was outraged that someone like that is being rejected, while some loud and obnoxious prick is getting all the attention.</p>
<p>Think! Do you really want? To be with a girl who likes guys like that? Being pretty won’t make her a good person. There are plenty of girls who are both.</p>