I like a girl out of my league?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>I hate to be "that guy" , but there's this girl I've known for about a year. She's on the dance team, and just generally popular. Me, I'm more of the "band geek" type of person, I have my friends, but am no where close to popular.</p>

<p>I have trouble socializing with her in person, mainly because I feel kinda intimated, because like I said, she's popular, and I'm not.</p>

<p>But here's the thing, we text a bunch. Like last night, we texted for 5 hours, well into the early hours of the morning, just about random stuff. Sometimes I wouldn't reply to her texts, and like 5 minutes later, she would text me again to keep the convo going haha. </p>

<p>Anyway, I'm sure you could care less, I'm just a teenage boy with girl problems, but some advice would be helpful. Should I pursue it, or just forget about it, and continue texting like usual?</p>

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<p>pursue it. she wouldn’t text you like that if she didn’t like you.</p>

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<p>yeah agreed with vintage19.</p>

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<p>PURSUE. The worst that could happen is she only wants to be friends.</p>

<p>Even more likely, she’s wondering the same thing about you, if you actually like her or not. Go for it!</p>

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<p>Pursue it. You have nothing to lose and much to gain.</p>

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<p>Make sure you don’t get into the “friend zone”, because if you do, it’ll be tough to get out of it.</p>

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<p>she wouldn’t text you for 5 hours into the night if she weren’t interested. go for it =)</p>

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<p>I think we’ve reached a consensus~</p>

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<p>Go for it, but do it in a way that results in minimum embarrassment if she rejects you.</p>

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<p>Don’t do what that AshwinSundar guy did</p>

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<p>^Haha what did the guy do?</p>

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<p>awww sounds lik a cheesy romance movie coming to life :stuck_out_tongue:
best of luck.</p>

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<p>Yeah, the fact that she’s willing to stay up super late just to talk to you is a good sign… but I’d encourage further developing your friendship in person, not just through text. It’ll enhance your relationship and potentially have her see you as more than a friend.</p>

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<p>Pursue it. I am currently dating the girl of my dreams who I’ve known for 3 years and always thought was out of my league.</p>

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<p>haha. Ashwin. Time to use my creepy memory again.</p>

<p>He lusted after a girl with a boyfriend, gave her cards/gifts when she was still in a relationship, was going to kiss her even though she had a boyfriend (we dissuaded him though), jumped on her once she and her boyfriend broke up, asked her out, got mad at CCers when we inquired what happened, and ultimately he was rejected.</p>

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<p>He was so creepy, too. I remember he made a thread with the title “Aaaaaaah! I’m going to ask a girl out!!!” and it was just weird, and he sounded like a little girl, and…ew.</p>

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<p>lol yeah. The fact that the first thing I saw AshwinSundar say was in praise of QuantumArbiter didn’t help matters.</p>

<p>Just don’t be like him or every male in trumpetgrl’s school and you’ll be fine - i.e. don’t get physical</p>

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<p>Haha, I’m in the same situation. Go for it. As others have said, you have nothing to lose.</p>

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<p>Welcome to life?</p>

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<p>The worst thing to do is to act as if you know she is out of your league.</p>