<p>There are steps to getting a girl and you can’t just skip those steps and speak your heart out to her. Best advice I would do is act like nothin happened and try talking to her. After that, don’t give her too much attention and treat her as if you had no affection ever. I would also advise talking to other girls.</p>
<p>It’s always the guys fault, right?</p>
<p>It’s not your fault at all. I would just advise trying to meet new people and treating her like nothing happened.</p>
<p>This is like the second time I’ve told a girl I liked her and the second time I’ve been turned down. I’m so ashamed of my feelings now. I know I should just have shut up but there was always this ridiculous irrational part of me that said things could be different. She then started seeing this other guy, and I got jealous should I just told her how I felt.</p>
<p>Yeah if it were me I would have waited unless I was absolutely sure she returned the feelings before telling her. It would have to be really obvious, as in so obvious that a mutual friend could see it.</p>
<p>Just continue acting the same way you normally do around her as if nothing happened, and then she’ll stop feeling awkward. Chances are, she’ll break up with the other guy someday and she’ll remember that you like her. Then she might try to start things up with you.</p>
<p>LOL. typical CC’er</p>
<p>thank god i’m attractive.</p>
<p>Jealousy is overrated.</p>
<p>She’s probably a llittle uncomfortable because you live together. Some people are cool with it. Personally I wouldn’t tell a girl I was living with I liked her until we weren’t living together. To me that would just be a bad situation. Having said that though I can understand where you’re coming from and why you did tell her. Its not always easy to keep your feelings under control.</p>
<p>But like others have asked, why would she be upset with you for liking her? Thats weird.
I suggest you just talk to her about it. Make it clear that you don’t expect her to sleep with you or anything, but that she’s a really nice girl and you just wanted to let her no.</p>
<p>On the off chance that she is totally creeped out and can’t act mature about this, you should start looking for another place to stay. Just so you have a backup plan.</p>
<p>Get out and make more friends. Investing all your time and effort in one friend and then bringing out the L-bomb is a complete waste of time and results only in pain for both parties. Contrary to what Disney and other B.S. teaches you, the way to get a girlfriend is not to be their BFF guyfriend, gain their trust/whiteknight them, and then drop the L-bomb when they least expect it. That’s just sneaky “nice guy” tactics which virtually never work. If you’re interested in someone, you should probably flirt with them so you make it known that you’re interested in more than just friendship, instead of being their asexual manslave for 3 years and then saying you love them, because it gives off the impression that you expect them to pay for the companionship with sex. If you did just naturally accumulate these feelings over time, however, I can sympathize, but in either case you should probably make new friends (that are not girls you are infatuated with) and make plans for moving elsewhere next semester/year. </p>
<p>Once you move, you should probably try to forget her completely. Either that, or let things cool off and return to sweep her off her feet, if she isn’t seeing anyone else (only works if she was even mildly attracted to you in the first place).</p>
<p>Just tell her that you want to be friends…you can still have feelings for her! I have gone through something similar so I know how you must feel about it but if she means that much to you then won’t you want her in your life even if she is just a friend? I am not saying to hold back on chances with others but who knows maybe if you two are friends for a while then she will start to have feelings for you too…it is a possibility so don’t get so down about it. It sucks but thats life so just stand tall, things will get better eventually…thats how I think everyday.</p>
<p>lol these things happen, if you guys were such good friends then give it some time and things should eventually work back to where they were before.</p>
<p>Jesus dude, learn to take “no” for an answer. If she doesn’t want to go out with you, respect that choice and just deal with the few weeks of awkwardness left.</p>
<p>“This is like the second time I’ve told a girl I liked her and the second time I’ve been turned down. I’m so ashamed of my feelings now. I know I should just have shut up but there was always this ridiculous irrational part of me that said things could be different. She then started seeing this other guy, and I got jealous should I just told her how I felt.”</p>
<p>God, you sound 13. This girl is not the only girl you will ever meet. Just keep trying, and in the meantime, try some brutal honesty. Why have two girls (by the way, two is not a lot - people get rejected more than that in their lives) turned you down? Maybe it’s a hygeine issue. Maybe you like girls who aren’t willing to be in relationships. Maybe you have bad boundary issues and ask out girls you live with - leaving them in an awkward situation if they don’t like you. Don’t be ashamed of your feelings, just get over them. They’re normal and yes, they’re stupid and irrational. And no, you shouldn’t tell her that you’re jealous she’s going out with some other guy, because she isn’t yours and you have no reason to be jealous. Do some serious introspection without beating yourself up.</p>
<p>I’m already trying to go out with another girl. She’s pretty ugly though…</p>
<p>Wow sounds like you really deserve her.</p>
<p>This one’s a winner, folks.</p>
<p>There is your problem then, you seem to base things solely on looks and that will lead your relationships to fail each and every time unless you go with someone shallow</p>
<p>I asked her if I should move out and should told me to “grow up”, I don’t understand</p>
<p>…You aren’t going to understand.</p>
<p>This is a hopeless case, folks. Move right along.</p>
<p>possibly even a ■■■■■.</p>