I like my roommate.

<p>I told my best friend and roommate I liked her (I'm a guy) and now she doesn't talk to me. Should I move out?</p>

<p>Not until you find out why she isn’t talking to you.
You could also ask her if she would prefer you to move out.</p>

<p>She probably feels very uncomfortable around you now. I don’t know why you would do this DURING the semester while you’re living together, but whatever.<br>
Write her a note explaining and ask her if she wants you to move out or just asking her to talk.</p>

<p>it’s not my fault. I’m not gay.</p>

<p>^It’s your fault you chose to tell her when she’s stuck living with you.</p>

<p>Moving out is kind of a rash decision especially when I’m assuming there’s not a lot of the semester left. Worst case scenario, things are awkward for the rest of the semester and you just live your life and move out when you both do. </p>

<p>Furthermore, if you guys are best friends, it probably won’t be as relationship-ending as you think. I know it seems bad now, but I went through a similar situation and within a few weeks my friend and I were fine. As long as you respect that your friend isn’t into you, I think things will probably be okay.</p>

<p>I also would discuss the situation with her. But don’t hound her, work on making her less uncomfortable.</p>

<p>And no it’s not your fault, but I don’t see how being gay (or not being gay) has anything to do with it.</p>

<p>I just hate myself so much. I just ruined the friendship with the only friend I had in college. I feel like *<strong><em>. I hate the *</em></strong> that I have hormones that pushed me to do this.</p>

<p>Few questions:</p>

<p>1.) Why did you decide to room with someone of the opposite gender? How’d that happen?
2.) Why do you only have one friend?</p>

<p>To be honest, I think you have a few much bigger issues than just the awkwardness. As for the awkwardness, an honest talk or note is probably the best way to handle it.</p>

<p>1) We live in separates room, but we share a common room. I live in Canada, so colleges might be different than in the U.S.</p>

<p>2) I only 1 friend because I’ve spent all my time in college with her so far.</p>

<p>“it’s not my fault. I’m not gay.”</p>

<p>Lol i’m sorry but did anyone not glance at his name and see oral lol</p>

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<p>Um, I thought girls LIKED being told that? </p>

<p>You didn’t do anything wrong. She just doesn’t know how to take a compliment.</p>

<p>I dont understand why is she making such a big deal. The fact that you like her doesnt mean she has to sleep with you every night against her will or something like that. Why do you like such a problematic girl…anyway, moving out is kind of exaggerated. Just tell her you are guy and like women and there’s nothing wrong with it, you wont attack her or ecs compliment her if she doesnt want you to.</p>

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<p>Orly-
You were in the “friend zone” where she trusted you and was comfortable around you.
You tried to move into the bf zone and she obviously doesn’t think of you that way, probably more like a brother.</p>

<p>You messed up your friendship, hope you can repair it.
She may not forgive you for crossing the line.</p>

<p>Get your hormones under control.</p>

<p>You can’t just tell someone you like them without thinking it through.
Especially someone you live with…
What did you expect?</p>

<p>What was I suppose to do? Live with these feeling and go on depression?</p>

<p>^ No. I probably would’ve said something too, but probably not so point-blank. More like steady implications to give her an idea.</p>

<p>I just find it hilarious that a girl got mad at you because you like her. So what if you were in the friend zone? She needs to get over herself.</p>

<p>Talk to her</p>

<p>Orly-
Your declaration freaked her out, give her time to regroup.
However, refusing to speak to you is not a promising sign.</p>

<p>You may want to make plans for a new place to live next year.</p>

<p>You have confused affection/friendship with love but obviously she doesn’t reciprocate your feelings.</p>

<p>I understand you had to do what you did but you may pay the price of losing your only friend.
Good luck.</p>

<p>This is ridiculous.</p>

<p>When all else fails, whip IT out.</p>

<p>Personally, I would consider a living situation not entirely unlike a professional situation-- I wouldn’t want someone at work making moves on me, because I have to work there every day and that makes things awkward and uncomfortable, and potentially inappropriate. I wouldn’t want someone I live with making moves on me either, because I have to live there every day and that makes things awkward and uncomfortable, and potentially inappropriate. Normally I would find someone liking me complimentary as long as they are not creepy about it, but if it were someone I live with I would be offended unless I had given some clear indication that I would be receptive to such advances. That is just not the right situation to be professing romantic feelings, for reasons I outlined above. So, personally, I don’t think it’s fair to say the girl can’t take a compliment. The boy put her in a really awkward position unless she gave some clear indication that she was okay with that boundary being crossed. Sometimes the adult thing to do is to keep things to yourself if the circumstances aren’t right (like, say, until the end of the semester when she isn’t trapped in an apartment with him anymore), and OP might want to learn that lest he end up like this guy: <a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/1126612-should-i-honest-go-dept-chair.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/1126612-should-i-honest-go-dept-chair.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;