I'm in love with a girl from a different college...

<p>What should I do? I'm lost...</p>

<p>Roflol. (10 char)</p>

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<li><p>Locate the balls between your legs and your supposed phallis. They all there?</p></li>
<li><p>Enjoy college.</p></li>
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<p>how far are you</p>

<p>I bet $1000000000 he hasn't even actually spoken to this girl :P</p>

<p>hmmm.....mail her your thumb!</p>

<p>ok....? And...?</p>

<p>...Have you even met this girl, or is she one of the "cute college girls" on collegehumor.com?! lol</p>

<p>This shouldn't be a problem? My choices are limited to either becoming a lesbian or dating people from other colleges, and it hasn't been an issue thus far. A plus about dating people from other colleges is that you two get the space you need, and you get to focus more on your academics.</p>

<p>Yeah I talked to her. And I'm not sure if she likes me or not. The distance is almost 4000km. I talked to her about transferring to a school near her (since I like that school anyway) and now she's asking me about my application. But actually I doubt I can get into that school since it's harder than some Ivy Leagues....</p>

<p>Well you won't know until you try. Still, if your one motivation for transferring to this school is this girl, then I say don't do it. It's like when high school couples choose to go to the same school, but break up 3 months into the relationship, and are both stuck with the school.</p>

<p>Also, I'm not one to say, but it sounds like you're infatuated, not in love.</p>

<p>^
Oh, well it's not the school she's in. But it's 3 hours from her. And it's ranked very highly for the field I'm interested in.</p>

<p>Never talk to her and expect her to come looking for you. Let destiny decide if it's love.</p>

<p>This isn't love. It's curiosity. It sounds as though this girl is someone you met on the internet or something. You say--"I'm not sure if she likes me or not." No one moves 4,000km and leaves their college because they have some kind of long distance crush on a girl that they probably haven't even had a date with. </p>

<p>Is this some kind of weird imaginary relationship with an online person or have you actually met and dated this girl previously?</p>

<p>Meh, don't transfer. Just go get over your oneitis.</p>

<p>Ask yourself this question, brah.
Are you really in love with this chick?
Here's what I use to determine this sort of stuff.
If she got into a horrible accident which made her extremely ugly AND destroyed her ability to have sex with you, would you still 'love' her?</p>

<p>lol@ the concept of love</p>

<p>It would be STUPID to transfer for a girl.</p>

<p>keep in touch with each other despite the fact that you might not see her everyday...if you guys ARE REALLY IN LOVE (although you are unsure as of now) be positive about it and try to work things out together I guess. </p>

<p>I am actually in a similar situation as you before. We go to different schools but we got to maintain our relationship by calling each other and getting to listen to his voice makes me cheery again!</p>

<p>So now kingofqueens is going to transfer to a college near you because of his newfound love...</p>

<p>Ok guys. I'm not saying I WILL transfer or even want to. Actually forget about that for now. What other things should I do or not do? By the way, I've actually met her in real life. We went to the mall together but I'm not sure if that counts as a date.</p>