<p>Well, here's the skinny: I'm going to Penn no matter what in the fall, with no relationship. HOWEVER, I am in love with this girl and we should be together, but it would only last during the time I am still here in Texas. She says she would be fine with cutting it off but I don't want her to hurt too bad, although this is half her choice.</p>
<p>Would it make me an ass to just make the best of a relationship while I am here and leave for college in a clean slate? Or should I not bother?</p>
<p>It really depends. She's lying when she says it's fine, but who knows? You could go out and realize that you're really not right for each other. But if you break it off now, you'll always wonder what could've happened. </p>
<p>I know this no help, but good luck either way.</p>
<p>That's similar to what I'm doing. My boyfriend and I are set to break up at the end of this coming summer (going to different colleges), but that hasn't stopped us from having a fulfilling relationship through the rest of the year. I say that if you really care about this girl, and she is okay with the timing issue, go for it!</p>
<p>doesn't exaclty sound like love hahahaha</p>
<p>Why not Narcissa? We've both felt things like this before, and can accept breaking it off.</p>
<p>Why does it have to be broken off? If you're in love why not at least try the long distance thing?</p>
<p>^^ Actually, I agree.</p>
<p>If it's truly LOVE, if you're truly SOULMATES, if you believe in such a thing...</p>
<p>You know your answer :)</p>
<p>A long distance relationship will never work....</p>
<p>I don't know about SOULMATES Mari XD.</p>
<p>And Nick, we would be 1500 miles away in totally new settings, and I feel we both deserve the college life on a clean slate with no worries. Long distance relationships don't work and I know they wouldn't for us, so why take on that stress? I am mature enough to accept an ending and the obstacles that block a long, long relationship.</p>
<p>I know for a fact that they can and do work, but it's your call.</p>
<p>Lol I know they can work too, I have pals in long distance ones, but I mean this is a massive change for both of us, but who knows what tune I will be singing come fall.</p>
<p>It's not like if it doesn't work you can't break it off. But if you really are in love with this girl what's the harm in at least trying?</p>
<p>I think you should make the best of it as you said, but don't get too serious/ absorbed into it. It will only be harder to break up later on.</p>
<p>ROFL, if you have to ask these kind of questions on the forum. I mean, not yourself, your pastor, your close friends or other close people. But no, if you have to ask these kind of questions before thousands of people you don't even know then you should break-up because your relationship isn't worth crap:)</p>
<p>Aw how cute, a self-righteous jackass slinging the judgment hammer around :)</p>
<p>Go for it. But don't try for long distance unless you both have a LOT of self control and trust.</p>
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Thanks for the compliments, I try ^)</p>
<p>Go for it, and if you don't feel that a long-distance relationship would work, just break it off and try the cheesy "let's just be friends" thing.</p>
<p>One of my friends had a really really good high school relationship and he kept his girlfriend... She was across the WORLD during their freshman year and now he's a sophomore and they're still dating. So it can work out.</p>