I’m going to a CC and when I transfer I’m worried I won’t make friends because everyone will have their own group from either high school or freshman year and I’ll be a junior there. I want to join a sorority but like I said, I’ll be the lame junior. I don’t want to be that person. How do I make friends? Do I go party or something?
While I can’t know where you are moving, if you transfer to a bigger college or university, there is a very good chance that you will make friends. I find that, while many people have friend groups in college, there aren’t as many ‘cliques’ and they are often perfectly happy to let you join them. Don’t worry about being ‘lame,’ it is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Put yourself out there a bit, join a sorority. Even if you find that you don’t fit in as well as you wanted to, you will know that you tried. I’m sure you’ll have a great time.