<p>(cross-posted with Mr Payne)</p>
<p>The crystal-ball quote is out-of-context light-hearted banter, but I wish I hadn't said it so it wouldn't be misconstued. </p>
<p>"I'd suggest your D try to find something she is passionate about doing, rather than picking an area in hopes of a financial windfall."</p>
<p>^^
wow.
Where'd you get this from mikemac?
I thank you for your viewpoint, but you are off base with this. </p>
<p>Find something she is passionate about doing? Something? She is passionate about MANY things. She is an award-winning artist, writer, and athlete. She reads a ton. She's happy and involved in her school and community. She's beloved by her friends and respected and admired. She has many little interests and nuances that make her an interesting person, but she has no ONE direction that she or anyone can point to as her ONE course in life. I imagine many parents have a daughter or son like mine who is busy, bright, and a flat-out good human being who could do many things. </p>
<p>She doesn't care about "financial windfall", at all. She has some ideas for careers and courses of study, one of which is engineering because she sees engineers as "doers and problem solvers". She knows a couple engineers. What they do is fascinating, though not easy. She's researched the field (and many others...) and while she can't say, "this is my CALLING," she likes it as well as anything and better than many things. </p>
<p>It is My Husband who feels that, especially in light of the dismal economy, she should study the most practical of her choices and interests. He feels she should have a skill set and a job when she graduates. </p>
<p>It is easier to change From engineering than To it. </p>
<p>Being an engineer doesn't mean she abandons her writing abililty or people skills or creativity. Those things would be assets in many fields, including engineering.
Indeed, parents here (like ucsd<em>ucla</em>dad) have told how their children have studied engineering, took humanties courses, and continued their interests in the arts. </p>
<p>And, as munchkin asked, can't an engineering major, especially one who has writing and people skills and is creative, get the same sorts of entry-level jobs as many other university grads? Especially with quantitative skills? So... aren't a lot of doors still open, no matter what the major?</p>