<p>Hahah, you think? lol</p>
<p>oh, not you, jason. We posted at the same time. sorry. =]</p>
<p>There is nothing wrong with being dramatic. If everyone just sat there and did nothing, this world would certainly be dull! I am good friends with a girl who others have accused of being a drama queen, and I am really glad she's a part of my life because she's always filled with energy. Yes, the dramatic ones can get emotional at times, but what's worse--displaying your emotions or keeping them bottled up in a jar and never telling someone what's wrong? (Anyone who likes true crime stories and has read Matt Birkbeck's "A Beautiful Child" knows why you should NEVER bottle up emotions--great book for anyone who likes CSI, by the way).</p>
<p>Anyway, I think guys are actually the weaker of the two sexes. Being a guy myself and dealing with other guys as such (and having many close female friends) I can tell you that guys are way more insecure than girls and as such act much dumber. This is especially true at the college age. Sometimes, they are too insecure with themselves to have meaningful conversations with people. And for everyone who accuses girls of being dramatic, guys can be too--barfights, brawls in sports, etc.</p>
<p>And some girls who are full of drama, well, some might find them annoying, but I think someone who displays drama in the right way can be pretty darn cute.</p>
<p>BTW: Guys bathrooms usually reek because people forget to flush half the time. Automatic flushers are becoming popular for this reason, as are the sanitary pads they put in urinals (although every college dorm I've been to has neither sanitary pads or automatic flushers...must be to keep tuition low).</p>
<p>I'm a girl, Enn, if that was meant for me?</p>
<p>I like the company of guys a lot more than I like the company of girls. Well, most girls. Guys are just way more laid back and fun.</p>
<p>No, no, it was meant for Jason. lol.</p>
<p>oohhh haha ok</p>
<p>looks like we've got some drama already</p>
<p>lmao. </p>
<p>Alrighty, that was funny. =D</p>
<p>Ha, my guy friends have just as much drama as my girl friends...most of them just don't talk about it as much. Simple as that.</p>
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Wow, you really have an issue with women, don't you?
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<p>Nope, just opinions. </p>
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Jason- yes, we know ALREADY, you don't got the moves. it's cool tho. someday you will find some ho who knows how to put the moves on you.
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<p>That's nice. Mind leaving me alone, now?</p>
<p>why didn't you just say that you were not in the mood to debate her to begin with? You could have saved time and some pages on cyber space that could have been used for something more usefull.</p>
<p>hahahaha .</p>
<p>a lot of you guys sound pretty heartless with your keep-your-problems-to-yourself-because-i-don't-care attitude. especially serious problems like sexual abuse as some of you have mentioned earlier.</p>
<p>"keep-your-problems-to-yourself-because-i-don't-care attitude."</p>
<p>not t sound rude or anything, but isn't listening to that sort of stuff an psychiatrists job?</p>
<p>talking to a friend about her problems is a way of showing support and that you care. psychiatrists are for people with mental problems. most girls with issues probably don't have mental problems. if she does, she would probably rather talk to you than a psychiatrist anyway.</p>
<p>if its serious stuff like sexual abuse, then yeah she should probably talk to a therapist or someone. but if a girl tells you stuff that like then she probably trusts you a lot cause it's not easy telling people about those kind of things.</p>
<p>OK, orangejuice, how about a counselor then? Not to be heartless, but for people with a lot of issues, it's probably the best option. I personally wouldn't want to keep a friend/significant other who has to open up to me every ten minutes. That's not to say I don't mind heart-to-heart conversations every once in a while, especially if the person in question is going through some hard times. But frankly, having to deal with a person's emotional issues all the time is just a pain in the a**.</p>
<p>blah. .</p>
<p>Seriously, "blah."</p>
<p>If you're not willing to listen to your friend or significant other, then maybe they shouldn't be either?</p>