<p>where there are girls, there will be drama.</p>
<p>Depends on the type of person you are. I have been fortunate enough to not have any drama <em>knock on wood</em> thrown my way. Drama is quite easily avoidable. "Act like an adult for once.." </p>
<p>I've found that people who are usually involved in it are actually the catalysts in the situation. Whether they say it or not, they attract drama because deep down, they like the attention, even if it's negative.</p>
<p>Seriously, if anyone is 18+ and doing the he say/she say thing, they should reevaluate life because at the present time, they're leading a dismal existence.</p>
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Middle school is pretty generally considered to be the most dramatic. especially with girls.
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<p>ok, i'm talking about actual drama that matters. not "oh my god i started my period" and "i...kissed him last night" and "she doesn't want to be my friend" drama. please, we all get over that. drama in college may be less in terms of random crap people start and complain about, but its more "important" and impacting.</p>
<p>Sure, we get over that. And yeah, it's dumb. But drama when you're young and trying to fit in and figure your stuff out is much more painful (at the time) than stupid drama in college that one is hopefully adult enough not to take to heart. And no, I don't really think college drama is "important" or in any way impactful. Drama is drama. Most of the time it's completely stupid and pointless.</p>
<p>i think my def of drama is just more specific than just random girly fights and boyish brawls and "ooo i like him" crap. that's just dumbas.sicity...yeah i just made up that word. i consider college drama more like what am i going to do with my life, i thought he/she was the one, someone helped me through a tough time, where can i find a day after pill....ok, maybe not the last one....</p>
<p>wherever there are girls there is drama....so college = drama</p>
<p>um, sixsixty already mentioned that.</p>
<p>there's no harm in repeating the obvious</p>
<p>There's no harm in repeating the obvious.</p>
<p>There's no harm in repeating the obvious.</p>
<p>There's no harm in repeating the obvious.</p>
<p>P.S. Especially if it is true.</p>
<p>I think I need an example to prove this point.</p>
<p>SITUATION FROM HIGH SCHOOL: Dude #1 likes Chick #1. Dude #2 is over at Dude #1's house. Chick #1 calls while Dude #2 is over and talks to Dude #1 for an hour. Dude #1 is fine with this and reads a magazine he sees on Dude #1's coffee table, letting him have his phone time with his girlfriend.</p>
<p>SITUATION FROM COLLEGE: Dude A likes Chick A. Dude B is Dude A's roommate. Chick A calls while both are in the room. Dude B yells, screams, and wrestles Dude A in the hallway outside the room, yelling and cursing and calling the girlfriend some choice words for no apparent reason. Dude B is NOT drunk.</p>
<p>Here's another one...note that the numbers/letters are reset here, so Dude #1 is different for example.</p>
<p>SITUATION FROM HIGH SCHOOL: Chick #1 is friends with Chick #2, Chick #3, and Dude #1. All four have a different best friend, none of whom is in this group. Nevertheless, they all mingle together like one big happy family. There are no cliques or anything, just a bunch of people who get along great.</p>
<p>SITUATION FROM COLLEGE: Chicks A, B, C, and D decide to form a clique and refuse to talk to Chicks E and F. Dudes A and B are liked by the clique while Dude C is not. Chicks E and F and Dude C all have their own best friend or relationship and really don't talk much because of that. Meanwhile, the clique continues to steer completely clear of any other people.</p>
<p>You be the judge.</p>
<p>My and my friends' college drama consists of:
M and C are best friends, and K is a relatively newish friend but still really good friends with them. K likes C alot, but C doesn't like K back. Instead, he manwhores around including fooling around with K even though he doesn't like her, until he figures out that he likes M alot and decides to stop whoring around so she'll like him, but M is trying to get back with her ex R who she broke up with for S who really just used her for fooling around. M only looks at C as a brother-type, although C is completely oblivious to this fact and thinks that with time M will come around. Meanwhile, K is trying to get over the fact that C basically just led her on the entire summer and looking for other prospects. And that's not even all of it, that's just within my immediate circle. Other, less close, friends cause and are part of a ton of other drama too.</p>