<p>Alright, so I went with this girl I kind of liked to prom. Afterward, I realized that I liked her enough to maybe go out with her for the summer. So, we've literally been talking for hours everyday (and by talking, I mean texting/Iming haha). And so you know, I have dated in the past, but this one is befuddling me. I asked her last Friday if she wanted to see a movie, and she said that she had already showered and was too tired and wanted to take the night off for relaxing (we ended up like talking for the rest of the night). She also said that she was taking a "raincheck." I've always been blunt about how I feel towards girls, so I just asked "Do you really want to go some other time, be blatantly honest with me?" to which she responded "Yeah haha sure." We've continued to talk just as much since then.</p>
<p>So, was she just trying to lightly reject me, since that doesn't seem like the best excuse to not go to the movies? Or do you think she was being legit? Oh by the way, I've actually seen some of the girl advice on her, and surprisingly a lot of it I agree with, so that's why I'm asking :).</p>
<p>I bet that she probably has a mild interest in you, but isn’t sure about it one way or the other. It might also be that she doesn’t want a relationship right now, or thinks that you guys should take it easy and be better friends before dating.
Just a chick’s perspective…</p>
<p>Turning down an offer to watch a movie is not a rejection or anything to dating you, I dont think so. Its good that you guys talk a lot though. :]</p>
<p>If she was relaly rejecting you, I dont think she would be talking to you that much.</p>
<p>Okay, well I will be trying again this weekend, because we’ve actually been talking even more if that’s possible. I almost feel like part of the reason could be that she is really nervous, because in school she seems more shy around me compared to how we talk otherwise.</p>
<p>This situation is very similar to one I had a few months ago. I don’t want to type out the whole story. But trust me: either she’s got reservations about dating you but still likes you, she’s a tease, or she’s so shy she has no idea what she’s doing. Mine was tease. >_> </p>
<p>Get down to the nitty gritty before you get sprung on her, though. You WILL get sprung on her if she drags the situation. I got sprung on the girl and it really affected my schoolwork for a couple weeks.</p>
<p>If you spend hours talking and texting and if she doesn’t seem to mind…this is no rejection though. She probably is what she says she is…If she really rejected you and then you continued talking for a while, then she probably wants to go see a movie with you another time…</p>
<p>As people said, probably not a rejection. She might be more uncertain than tired though. I usually don’t do anything with a guy until it’s really obvious he likes me. Like, after he throws me on his bed and gets on top of me (which is honestly not sexual at all, as far as I’m concerned). That’s when I start taking risks. I need really blatant signs.</p>
<p>It’s funny that you say that because I did actually tell her after prom that I liked her and wanted to do things in the future. I wish I could get over the shyness at school though.</p>
<p>Haha if you look good ,if you dress well ,and if you have an athletic body (this is not mandatory) you should not be shy.The ■■■■■ you are talking to should be shy.However ,if you think you have not chance with this girl ,you are shy :)</p>
<p>By the way, after talking some more, I did ask her again, and we are going tomorrow lol. It just sucks because we are both going to college in a couple months…</p>
<p>Alright, here the future comes…
She will go out with you couple of times
There will be more times she will say she is too tires
She will tell you that is is confused (might say something like “idk” when you ask her about her liking you or something like that)
She wants you as a friend</p>
<p>You are confused now</p>
<p>Sorry dude…thats how it will be, post/tell others what happens…</p>
