<p>Thank you all for your help and opinions regarding whether to apply ED 1 for my "lopsided" daughter. We decided she was not ready to apply ED 1, and that we will squeeze a visit in to Wash U right before Thanksgiving, and try to squeeze another in to Pomona/Scripps after Thanksgiving. It's a hardship because of time constraints, but it seems necessary to do this for ED 2. She just couldn't bring herself to apply ED1 with the current level of ambivalence. Hopefully, the visits will help get her "off the fence," as someone here said. I'll report back after the trips.</p>