<p>Time for a rant.......</p>
<p>People who have been on this board for more than a week or so probably know already that I'm a guy. I'm also straight. If you're new this was to clear that up.</p>
<p>Now for the rant. Fasten your seat belts, boys and girls.</p>
<p>Although I am a guy and have known that forever, I also have said on a consistent basis for years that GUYS SUCK. In fact, I have said this since 1996 when I found myself sitting at the girls lunch table instead of the guys simply because I found the guys to be immature, stupid, and downright cruel to anyone who wasn't "good enough" for them.</p>
<p>This third grade mentality of guys evolved over the years. Now most of the guys I've encountered will write you off for similar reasons. Although the ManLaws.com site might be stereotyping a bit too much, it's all too true at the same time. And I've found 85% of college age guys to be like the ones who follow the man laws on that website.</p>
<p>One of the big no-no's? Displaying any sort of concern for women. Now I can trace back to September 1989 on this one. I was walking into preschool that day and a girl fell down the steps. I ran over to make sure she was okay and felt so horrible when she started crying as a result of a large scrape to her knee.</p>
<p>Fast forward to 2006. I'm still like this. Okay, so maybe it's not falling down steps and it's more like counseling someone when they're feeeling down (the falling is more abstact than literal now).</p>
<p>There have been some folks who have disapproved of this behavior. 100% of them are guys and 100% of them are within two years of my age.</p>
<p>And it's not just caring for women and being there as a friend for them. I have been chastised because I don't drink and am completely against pornography of any type. Never drank or watched a dirty film and never plan on doing either. Keep in mind I'm less than a year away from my 21st birthday now and I am already planning on celebrating it alcohol free. Wait, that's not a plan, that's an "I WILL" celebrate it alcohol free.</p>
<p>Now about the whole "whiner" thing. Some people seem to confuse a simple state of dissatisfaction with intentional whining. Whining to me is when someone is purposely trying to be a pest.</p>
<p>I am going to list two examples of false whining here, one literal and one not so literal.</p>
<h1>1: My buddies are standing around discussing politics. I was off getting some water and join them after the conversation had begun. My friend says very politely that she disagreees with another guy. He's okay at first, stating his counterpoint, but then she defends it some more. He accuses her of being a "whiner" who "wants her own way" and is a "spoiled brat". To me that's just a ton of immaturity on that guy's part--and he's normally not like that unless he's debating a girl.</h1>
<h1>2: My friend has her third surgery of the school year. My other buddy insists that she is faking it and that she wants attention because "she's just a teacher's pet who won't get anywhere". Now I like this guy too and he normally doesn't say stuff like that, only to certain girls.</h1>
<p>Here is proof that guys have something against women.</p>
<p>Also, men are good at deliberate whining, sometimes jokingly (like when my buddy said "eew, he has mustard on his sandwich, I don't want to sit next to him!") but often also the kind they accuse girls of.</p>
<p>I know my arguments are a bit disjointed here (I'm running on an empty stomach right now so my brain's not 100% as I write this) but you get the point. There are a few nice guys out there who respect women, and they should be praised. The rest of them need to go back to Ethics 101.</p>