<p>correction to my post: I meant (in reference to post 44): let’s demonize those who didn’t stay at home in the early years. Either way, these are personal decisions which are not by themselves either reflections of virtue/responsibility or non-virtue and irresponsibility. </p>
<p>In itself, a decision (or a need) not to stay at home is not indicative of quality of parenting, nor is the opposite indicative of an urge to micromanage.</p>