<p>ROTFL hysterically, Sticker!!</p>
<p>Blossom, I hear you. For now my kids seem to be coping. On the positive side of this, I believe that high expectations are better for children than low ones. The majority of kids tend to rise to the occasion and surprise us adults with how much they can accomplish so young. But we do need to be on guard about how much our children should be asked to handle.</p>
<p>As far as the idea these smart kids would be bored in regular classes, perhaps that's true. But how did that situation come to be in the first place? I believe that most of the kids taking a million AP's didn't arrive at that point because they are innately so much more intelligent than the children in the regular track that they'd be bored otherwise. No, they are highly intelligent because of a rich and demanding home and school environment which is teaching material to them years earlier than bright kids in our generation learned the same things. Sure they may be a little smarter than the average bear and that's why the parents responded with enrichment and why the school placed them in an advanced track to begin with. But we're not talking about Einstein-smart or Bill Gates-smart in most cases. We're talking Kumon-tutored--smart, PhD parents giving kids extra homework daily--smart, kids doing workbooks or taking classes all summer long--smart, hyper-ambitious parents behind kids pushing them--smart. In that group there are a few "brilliant" ones mixed in too.</p>
<p>And I failed to mention that my third-grader is PDD NOS. I want the expectations for her to be high. I want her to be pushed and challenged, but when it's appropriate and makes sense for her individually--not just because the school needs to keep its test scores high.</p>
<p>As for me, I've been getting too little sleep because I'm watching over my night owl D, and drinking way too much coffee. The anxiety is taking its toll on mom, that's clear. Thanks for the group therapy, guys.</p>