<p>to make a long story short, after a lonely first semester as a freshman (in which she nonetheless managed to make the dean's list), she seemed to be on a very positive track after moving to a new dorm.
Then, for reasons that completely bewilder me, she got caught trying to buy a joint from a kid in a dorm who was being watched by security.
Now she faces a disciplinary hearing. She went immediately to the person who will chair the hearing and pleaded her case (he said he had to remain neutral until the actual hearing, though he indicated some sympathy), and then she went to the head of campus security and made her plea all over again.
She is completely contrite, scared to death. And so, of course am I, especially since she dropped another shoe before me: Apparently in October she was "written up" for being publicly intoxicated and had to attend a session on alcohol abuse. Now I am really floored. </p>
<p>My instincts tell me that she is just overwhelmed by her new freedom at college and is mishandling it all over the place. I had thought that the transfer to the new non-Animal House dorm would give her just the environment she craved, but now I don't know what to think.</p>
<p>What do you think the college might do? The administrator told her they regard this offense very seriously, as they should. Among the possibilities are judicial probation (and I am not sure yet what the conditions of that would be) and judicial suspension, which would mean she would be kicked out for period of time. She is there on full scholarship, which doesn't appear to be immediately imperiled by this situation.<br>
Apparently there will be a hearing next week. I think I might lose my mind in the interval. Please share your thoughts --- I really need them.</p>