<p>(Note: I haven’t read all the posts in this thread)
So I applied to 14 schools and I’m going to UPenn in the fall. Here are my thoughts on the application experience. I’m just sharing my personal experience, so please understand the subjectivity of the following info.</p>
<p>Honestly, there’s nothing wrong with applying to many reach schools. In terms of safeties and “i can get in if I keep up the good work” schools, narrow down BEFORE you apply. But for reach schools, there’s no problem applying to many, since the options tend to narrow themselves down. (I applied to 4 Ivies, got into one, waitlisted at one, denied from two. Problem solved.) I actually recommend applying to many reaches, because I almost didn’t apply to Penn thinking I wouldn’t get in. You never know. Ivies and such are unpredictable.</p>
<p>I REPEAT: DO NOT DROP YOUR REACHES!!! I had a 4.11 GPA, 32 ACT 1510/2310 SAT. White female. No hooks. Got into Penn CAS with a likely letter. I know my essay had a lot to do with it. So there’s definitely a chance for you! APPLY TO YOUR REACHES. YOU DON’T WANT TO LOOK BACK ON LIFE AND WONDER WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED HAD YOU APPLIED. (Which is why I applied to Harvard and got rejected. But at least I don’t have to die wondering.)</p>
<p>I visited a LOT of colleges before I applied. I didn’t learn much, except that Princeton’s small town atmosphere made me claustrophobic, and physically getting to Wellesley and some others is a pain in the rear. I ended up re-visiting Duke and Penn after I as accepted because it was between those 2. The SECOND visit (and the visit alone) made the decision for me. So I wouldn’t worry about visiting until you actually get accepted.</p>
<p>Someone suggested visiting local universities to get an idea of what you like/don’t before you apply. Good idea, I think. The variety of schools you’re considering is significant. Penn is a large university in an urban setting, with grad schools you can take classes in. Princeton is only undergrad, is set in a small town, and has other strengths than Penn’s. And Cornell is in upstate New York, with a well-reputed engineering program. So figure out what’s important in a school for you, check out each school’s unique offerings (Penn’s submatriculation program, Princeton’s woodrow wilson school, etc.) and then you may have a better idea where you want to apply. Putting yourself on a mailing list or checking out the website is a great way to get info.</p>
<p>One thing you can consider is applying ED (or EA), if you’ve got your heart set on one of them. Notification is Dec 15, and RD app deadline is Dec 31. So if you get in somewhere ED, you don’t have to submit your other apps (but make sure you actually DO them beforehand so you dont have to cram it all in during 2 weeks around winter exams!), and it’ll keep your dad happy. If you get deferred/denied ED (or EA), then you can send out those other apps.</p>
<p>Also, Ivies and such tend to give out great financial aid packages (or so I’ve heard, I didn’t get squat), so even if you don’t go, you can bargain with the school you’re going to.</p>
<p>Wow sorry for the long post.</p>