<p>He told me one day that he took issue with one thing that I did, and since then he has been ignoring me in subtle ways, pretending not to see me, etc.</p>
<p>The one thing I did was not even that bad, and didnt have anything to do with him, so I suspect its only an excuse he's using.</p>
<p>Now the question is what I should do:
If I ask him straight up, it may make it even more awkward, he may deny, and it will be undeniable that there is tension.
If I act like nothing is wrong, he may decide to stop ignoring me after a while, but he may see me as weak, afraid to confront the issue, and continue to ignore me.
If I ignore him back, and start to go against him, the situation could be made even worse...</p>
<p>I don't want to lose a good friend, and we have several mutual friends that we hang out with together, so I want the situation to get better soon. </p>
<p>This is part of college life. You’re going to come across quite a few people who will become complete *******s to you. It has happened to me several times (NO I did not do anything wrong to ruin the relationship). If he really doesn’t want to be that close to you, then he won’t. It’s best to either confront him or give him the cold treatment and see how he responds to you. Turn the tables on him! If things don’t change, then it’s for the better and no wasted time.</p>
<p>maybe he’s not a good friend. if you truly didn’t do anything bad, especially if it didn’t affect him, i don’t understand why he would be mad at you</p>
<p>That was a little harsh, but seriously, you need to learn to get over friends who backstab you or whatever.
I know it’s hard, I’m going through the same thing right now, but it’s better to forget about it.</p>
<p>I know exactly what you’re going through. Sometimes people change (or get a ******y controlling boyfriend) and the two of you drift apart. It’s tough, but it happens.<br>
The only thing to really do is get over it and move on.</p>
<p>^*** at all the schizotypal asocial ******* posters above</p>
<p>if you don’t know what you did, it must not be very important. since you have mutual friends, ask one of your friends to ask him or find out what you did. or you can just wait til he calms down and ask him. you called him a he. guys don’t hold grudges forever like girls do.</p>