@srk2017 - Yes, I think it’s all in the expectations. While I enjoy spending time with many people of my culture, race, and ethnicity, I equally enjoy spending time with those of other cultures, races and ethnicity on a continual and constant – rather than on an “as needed” – basis.
Vandy wasn’t the only school where one can observe segregation and social stratification in dining halls, classrooms, etc. either de facto or by choice. But my D did perceive it there more than at some other places she considered. Like @Testingearly’s D, she is most comfortable with and prefers greater diversity and inclusion. And apparently, they’ve both (hopefully) found it where they are going. 
@Testingearly - did your D apply for any of the ILEs or FroSoCo? My D just found out that she got into SLE, so she’s a happy camper.
(again, sorry for the hijack, but I think the OP has flown the coop anyway)