Need advice on roommate situation

<p>This is my first post, so please bear with me. My roommate and I have lived together for 2 years with only 1 problem between us the whole time. We are very non-dramatic and will go to great lengths to avoid confrontation between each other. </p>

<p>Just recently, I broke up with my girlfriend while my roommate just started dating someone he's been interested in for awhile. While I am very happy for both of them, they make me very uncomfortable with all of the cuddling and other PDA (Such as sleeping in the living room under the same blanket while I have guests over) that they do. I feel I would be out of line to tell him what he can and can't do with his girlfriend, but since I just broke up with mine it's the last thing I want to be around. Would I be out of line to ask him to tone it down while around me in our apartment? Any advice would help! Thanks, Nate</p>

<p>Yes, you would be out of line. PDAing and culddling is awesome when it is you, and sucks when it isn't. That is just the way it is. Your roommate is getting with a girl that he has been interested in for a whlie, why not be happy for him?</p>

<p>That doesn't mean you can't make fun of them to make them feel uncomfortable. It has to be a funny way though. Like if they are making out in front of you, you could say things like "why don't you guys get a room?", "Why don't you go back to <strong>roommate's name</strong>'s room and have sex already?", and more. Probably the best ones can't been said on this forum. I know it is tough having to see them, but this is something you are going to have to suck up. Making jokes about them is totally fair game though.</p>

<p>You're just going to come across as whiney if you're complaining about him cuddling with his girlfriend because you just got out of a relationship. Why are they sleeping on the couch instead of in his bed though?</p>

<p>But yeah, mock him. Preferably when she's not around. And in a friendly way.</p>

<p>I would recommend doing it while she is around, even while they are doing things that make you feel uncomfortable.</p>

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<p>i concur</p>