Need Advice Please

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<p>This is in no way meant to be a pity-me thread, I'm just looking for some guidance to make my college experience a bit more enjoyable.</p>

<p>When I first started college, I knew no one other my roommates, so I quickly joined multiple clubs and sports teams. I had a great time and met many people, even a group of people who I enjoy hanging out with and have (up to this point) felt like they enjoyed hanging out with me. Recently, I feel like these guys have separated me and expelled me from the group. They usually do activities without inviting me and never act excited or eager to be around or even talk to me.</p>

<p>So... I feel as if I am back to where I started at the beginning of the year. Should I give my friends some space and hang out less or ask to hang out more often?</p>

<p>My second question: Having joined multiple clubs and met a lot of people, I feel as if I can call very few of them friends. What is the trick to changing acquaintances into close friends?</p>

<p>Any advice is welcomed and thank you.</p>

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<p>Leave those guys, start making awkward conversations with people you feel you’d fit best with until they become less awkward.</p>

<p>You might have to sit alone for upwards of three weeks before you start making new friends as most people have their groups already.</p>

<p>On to the next bud!</p>

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<p>Its complicated man. I think you should find the interests of your club mates ( even if you don’t like the interests) and do them. Eventually they see that you like doing the same things as them, then they will return the favor and do some of the things you like.</p>