One word of advice, our all or nothing thinkers may be paralyzed by “what if I make the wrong decision”. I keep telling him if he struggles, and there are plenty of NT kids who struggle too, we will be there for him but if he tells us sooner rather than later, it will be much better for him. And that there is such a thing as a “transfer student”
I’ve already told him that I expect him to attend the program (and it’s 3 days a week at first, which even I think may be a little much, but that he can gauge it and say that we’ll pay for the 3 days and only do two) and that I’d like him to avail himself of the counseling center just to have someone to talk freely in a way that he can’t with us and the writing center and the math center, any help he needs is there for him to use, and we are just a Skype away.