<p>Tutu: it probably depends on the school. I would hope it was a thing of the past. My roommate made a point of wearing her Star of David. She wanted people to know up front. Actually I think money is more the issue. I was asked several places "where do you summer?" to which I always said "the same place I winter." </p>
<p>On my campus, the African American students joined the Service Sororities and Fraternities. One of the "Q Dogs" in my dorm said that the regular fraternities seemed juvenile. There were four Service Fraternities and Four Service Sororities in addition to the 16 Sororities and I'm not even sure how many Fraternities--probably over 25. Mad Bowl and Rugby Road were chock-a-block with Greek houses.</p>
<p>April: Back in the day at my alma mater, the girls had to go to all the houses. They gave you a specific time for each one. The first round the rushees cut. After that it was cutting from both sides. Supposedly it was more "civilized" bwwahahaha. The fraternities had Open Rush for about two weeks, after that the parties were closed. (well, not for girls) The men could go to just one house the whole time if they wanted, or visit around. There weren't any rules. Usually with the guys, if they didn't want someone to pledge, they made it pretty clear at their open parties. </p>
<p>Girls weren't allowed to do that. You had to do the poker face thing the whole time. Sometimes a girl would get cut only because she hadn't met a lot of sisters during a party so when it came time to vote, nobody knew this person. Our house usually kept the unknowns for a few rounds. Some houses didn't. Some houses were also famous for rotating an unwanted person to a group in the back so they wouldn't meet people. </p>
<p>And then there were two of my all time favorite dirty rush experiences. At one house we rushees were given a "Grillswith" (fried donut with icecream) on a paper plate and a flimsy plastic fork, plus a cup of cider. You were supposed stand and chat, and eat, and drink...yes you ended up with a soggy donut that you threw out discreetly as you left. Another house gave Rice Krispie Treats with napkin stuck to the bottom. You could just eat it and pretend it was delicious, or pick the napkin off, or throw it away. At first we thought these were mistakes--until everyone started comparing notes!</p>