<p>There's this girl that I've gotten to know over the last month....more than most girls I've met and gotten to know.</p>
<p>Lately, we haven't been talking. We've had our high points and low points. Right now, it's definitely a low point.</p>
<p>We went from hanging out and going to lunch to having not texted each other for the last 3 days now. </p>
<p>I'm thinking about just finally telling her that I would like to be more than friends--by asking her out--but I'm uneasy about this and not sure if she's already lost her interest in me. </p>
<p>I was thinking about while in class, going up to her and asking if I could talk to her outside the classroom and just telling her whatever it is I have to tell her.</p>
<p>I'm not a hundred percent sure what I should tell her other than what I like about her, about us, and going out and doing something more meaningful together--those types of things. Any suggestions? </p>
<p>Also, should I ask her out or did I miss my opportunity during a high point in our interactions?</p>
<p>If I were you I’d try to get to a high point with her again before asking her out or whatever. Just to see how she feels.</p>
<p>i agree. get to a high point first.</p>
<p>but instead of going through that random crap i think one afternoon, when you’re with her, just casually ask her if she wants to go out with you OR ask her if she wants to go grab dinner with you.</p>
<p>Chill. Out.</p>
<p>Three days of no communication over a family-oriented holiday is not a big deal. Ask her to lunch or dinner or a movie or a concert or a study session or something, make her laugh, and then ask her out if things are going well.</p>
<p>I’ll be honest: you sound really insecure.</p>
<p>That aside, get back to the high point by hanging out with her again, and then define the relationship.</p>
<p>Don’t express your desire for a relationship verbally. Ask her to do something with you, then take the opportunity to be more physical. If she isn’t comfortable holding hands/kissing, then she won’t agree to go out with you, but there’s a better chance of her being receptive to those things than a direct declaration of affection. Those situations are just awkward…</p>
<p>Ahhh indeeeeeed sirrrr. A direct declaration of affection would no doubt debilitate thy chances of a favorable outcome being achieved with the aforementioned female acquaintance. Mmmmmm perhapssss.</p>
<p>That would be an aweful way to handle it.</p>
<p>Talk about making her feel awkward. Don’t get all 80’s teen movie about it.</p>