<p><a href="http://www.angelfire.com/vt2/g_hols/Niceguy%5B/url%5D">http://www.angelfire.com/vt2/g_hols/Niceguy</a></p>
<p>This is very depressing indeed...:(</p>
<p>In college it starts to turn around actually. Or maybe that's just what I'm hoping...</p>
<p>I see what you mean.</p>
<p>i don't think this is true. </p>
<p>smart girls will be quick to realize who the jerks are, and get rid of them fast.</p>
<p>at least that's what i think...</p>
<p>=] I agreed with stupidestofthesmart. :D Maybe I will find the nice guy someday. [daydreams] x]</p>
<p>Girls want a guy with confidence, someone that exudes power and strength. Nice guys tend to lack these qualities or at least hide them more often.</p>
<p>So if ur nice, the girl will think ur a p*ssy, but if ur slightly mean, she'll think ur just a bad person.</p>
<p>It's hard to win women over. Despite what everyone says, it all comes down to looks. If she thinks ur hot, you can get away with a lot of things.</p>
<p>Very interesting read indeed.
Makes you think a lot.</p>
<p>Nice guys eventually get someone though. They just have to wait a little bit longer, but when they find that special someone, it was worth the wait.</p>
<p>Nice guys do not finish last. Unskilled guys finish last. </p>
<p>"You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills...Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills."</p>
<p>I hit myself once with a pair of nun-chuks... that kinda hurt. Ever since then I've stuck to bo and rapier.</p>
<p>Back to the topic. Nice guys will finish last if they don't have an extra push (what exactly an extra push is can be debated). I'm a nice guy with some sort of push and I've gotten plenty of action through my HS years: two and a half g/fs (I say half because one relationship turned out to be a two week string of one night stands, and I didn't like that too much), one relationship lasted about half a year, the other almost for one year (I ended one relationship, the other was mutual). I also had a few dates here and there, so I'm living proof that nice guys can get action.</p>
<p>Right now though... I think I won't involve myself in another relationship until college... I'll still date, but over time, it REALLY eats away at my wallet and time.</p>
<p>By the way, I'm not the hottest guy out there, but I'm not ugly at all either, so I don't think my looks won anything. I'm pretty sure my looks played a small factor because I am neither hot nor ugly.</p>
<p>It also depends on the girl. All of the girls I've dated/had relationships with were extremely intelligent, I think that could be a factor when deciding which guys they want, because it seems to me that very few very smart girls go after bad boys.</p>
<p>Bump. Suprisingly, there are a lot of nerdy guys that are hooked up with attractive girls. I really think that money and success counts more than good looks for a man in a female's POV, especially when they are older.</p>
<p>i agree confidence is key...</p>
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<p>Thought-provoking.</p>
<p>^ Whoa, way to revive a 5-year-old thread o.o</p>
<p>ANOTHER thread on this topic?! -_-</p>
<p>I rarely pay attention to the dates. Sorry.</p>
<p>^There is nothing wrong with necroing. [noparse]:)[/noparse]</p>
<p>The link is mostly nonsense:</p>
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No, you can be nice if you want to or you can be a *</em></strong> if you want to.
‘Nice guy’?
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But the nice guy isn’t THAT na</p>
<p>^agreed, what an <em>capital</em> A-hole.</p>
<p>So this guy is just further proving his point… :l</p>
<p>^^ I agree as well that guy is a seaward</p>
<p>The best thing about college is that I won’t have to spend another 4 years with the same guys I spent pre-K, elementary school, and middle school with.</p>